You can't see the truth about what's going on unless you take time to be honest and deal with your relationship issues. You're keeping too many people at arm's length-just what are you afraid of? Today, put away your fears and you'll be able to learn a valuable lesson about your insecurities, like how unwarranted they are. Who you are isn't predetermined. You're a work in progress. You can make all the changes you want to make; you just have to start.