If you want to improve your life, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might be your defensive attitudes, your fear of being dispossessed, your ambivalence, your radicalism, or your over-reliance on your instincts.

Hongjoong feels unstable and ethereal when it comes to emotions. Although he has the ability to detach himself from his emotions and observe them objectively, this tendency sometimes prevents him from feeling deeply and sincerely about them. This is why he often analyses and understands other people’s feelings instead of allowing himself to be swayed by them. It is also why he might hesitate, contradict himself, and say both yes and no when he has the opportunity to express himself emotionally. He should make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious conditioning which may be related to his childhood. He must first learn to observe and assimilate other people’s feelings instead of rejecting them. This exercise will teach him to understand his own reactions and affects better.