You can feel free to turn a deaf ear to anyone who's telling you that your life needs more discipline and structure. This person is projecting their own feelings of inadequacy onto you. Don't let someone with status or in a powerful position intimidate you and force you to adopt a lifestyle that's uncomfortable for you. The way you manage your life is working just fine. All that matters is that it works for you.
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