If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution:- my need to bluff- my inability to manage certain things- my instability- my unwillingness to change certain opinions

The subject of the text is Terrell Owens. He tends to lure others to him, gaining their love and approval. As a lover, he might be the impetuous type who rushes into a relationship without thinking, making a great show of affection at the outset. He could learn to evaluate the pros and cons of an emotional commitment more carefully if he wants to avoid leaving a trail of broken hearts.