Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:
Polo G is determined to obtain a superlative grip on his emotional urges; he practices holding back his impulses and controlling them. Although it is not an easy apprenticeship, he wants to be able to bear strain with patience, endurance, and stamina. More than anyone else, he is aware of the need for a solid and stable foundation as a prerequisite to any effective action.
At the moment of Polo G’s birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This is a portent of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes which is extremely beneficial. It is the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which may be said to compose the personality. Polo G thus enjoys a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of his psyche, between his determination and his routines, between his drive for self-assertion and his receptivity, his ideal and his sensitivity.
Polo G’s parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to him, and it is likely that they encouraged him to develop his own individuality. As a result, Polo G was and is able to be comfortable with himself as he is instead of striving to attain his parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family.
In Polo G’s emotional relationships with his peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images his ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.
Polo G is extremely vigorous and energetic and has an immense need to assert their individuality. Their attitudes and actions are actually motivated by an unconscious desire for power. They puzzle the people close to them, who cannot understand whether their behavior is the result of pure selfishness or merely of an excess of energy. They are lively, alert, and determined, but are too easily distracted from goals by futile competition or opportunities to exhibit their power. They have a short temper and must learn to control their impulsiveness, which might expose them to a great deal of unnecessary conflict.
Adaptation and Sensitivity:
Because Polo G is fond of method and order, he usually prefers to do things according to a pre-established plan. His behavior mirrors this tendency. He will adopt relatively strict models elaborated on the basis of logical or moral reasons. He does not readily express his personal feelings or emotions and may sometimes strike others as a rigid person. However, his conscientiousness and application make him thrive in a work environment, and he tends to treat social engagements and activities as a form of duty. His natural taste for clarity, detail, and technique would make him successful as a scientific researcher or high-tech designer.
Polo G is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find Polo G generous almost to a fault! Polo G gives of Polo G’s self and Polo G’s resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when Polo G is self-focused. Polo G reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and are prone to misjudge. As a result, Polo G’s everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, Polo G senses a conflict between Polo G’s social life and Polo G’s family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill Polo G’s self in both spheres at the same time. Polo G’s attitude toward Polo G’s private life may inhibit Polo G’s ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on Polo G’s private life. Polo G should be careful not to project Polo G’s personal problems onto Polo G’s partner. If, instead, the two of Polo G analyzed the problem, Polo G might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
Polo G’s sensitivity and emotions are sometimes in conflict with his instincts. This inner discord makes him a fairly complicated relationship partner, and his behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. He is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of his life, and his relationships are most often motivated by his desires. Nevertheless, due to his unconscious inner battle, he does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling his emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of his instincts, passion may overwhelm him and drag him into situations he cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Love and Sensuality:
Polo G is looking for the ideal love and tends to idealize their friends and lovers. A bizarre character, they may prefer to dream of their soulmate instead of making love to one; they are more in love with the idea of love than anything else. Their idealism may hide a fear of truly committing themselves to a relationship; they try to intellectualize everything. In time, two options will seem clear to them: an amorous friendship based on shared ideas and intellectual exchange, or an open relationship, free of all constraints except mutual respect.
Polo G’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of Polo G’s emotional urges and somewhat wary of Polo G’s feelings, Polo G tries to rid Polo G of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Serious and reserved, Polo G does not seem to be centered on his emotional life. Nevertheless, he will be an exemplary and competent partner, loyal and devoted, as soon as he finds the right person to commit to.
Polo G is equally sensitive to both outer and inner beauty. Polo G may arouse great love or Polo G could become a muse and inspire great works of art. Polo G could find happiness with a partner who knows how to awaken Polo G’s more exalted emotions and can communicate with Polo G on an artistic or spiritual plane.
Polo G has a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. He is emotive and hypersensitive, making him especially vulnerable emotionally, since he is sometimes overwhelmed by his feelings and affects. Although he seeks an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom he could maintain blissful, smooth relations, he is sometimes met with disillusionment. Because his rather excessive sensitivity and his need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge his judgment and discernment, so he sometimes forms extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When he meets someone, he falls under the enchantment of his dream of ideal love and cannot keep himself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, he yields to another of his characteristic urges and loses himself in the individual who is so dear to him, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find himself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, his psyche is constructed in such a way as to make his sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before he takes on any major commitments, he should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates his intense love, for he may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. His tendency to believe in his illusions may mark him as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for him to find a different object for his affections, or a form of sublimation, because he tends to be so disappointed by his great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of his imagination procure artistic refinement for him, and he loves the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because his sensitivity also makes it easy for him to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties his peers are struggling with, he might also find it rewarding to commit himself to social work.
Mental and Intellect:
Polo G sometimes considers his input from his subjectivity and emotions as static which he tries to tune out to go straight to the essence of knowledge. As a result, regardless of his field of study, he tries to obtain perspective. He will elaborate a thought on the basis of fairly cold, abstract logic, supported by sober, concise, and immaculate reasoning. His choice areas of study could be mathematics, philosophy, legislation, or political science. Ideologies, theories, and any other system of reasoning could serve as “food for thought” for him.
Polo G expresses their thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. Polo G is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, Polo G looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.