Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:

Jaime Adler is trying to overcome her feelings of insecurity. To do so, Jaime needs a home: a dwelling, a territory, or perhaps a safe space or setting where Jaime can rest, and let down her systems of defense against the outer world, which Jaime finds aggressive and hostile. Jaime is ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure Jaime has chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of Jaime, her abilities, and her shortcomings, her strengths and her weaknesses would no doubt be most effective and would allow Jaime to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.

Jaime Adler has a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding their identity. Perhaps their father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during their childhood, which deprived them of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because they might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, they were forced to protect themselves against negative influences and find their own system in order to grow and feel secure.

Although this system was quite useful to them as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with their evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber their mind or inhibit their developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for them to assert themselves, and they tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because their authoritarian urges are mainly directed at themselves rather than others, they sometimes feel guilty about their behavior. They judge themselves severely, and sometimes punishes themselves by setting difficult tasks for themselves. Gradually, they should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

Jaime Adler’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling his psyche. Because his sensitivity is in conflict with his determination, his attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, he has the feeling he has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging his yearnings and fulfilling his ambitions. His unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of his conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage his plans. In his relationships, the images he builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on his nerves. He finds it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.

Jaime Adler is an ardent free thinker and individualist who is convinced that their most precious basic values are freedom and independence. They have thrown off what they perceive as the burden of the convention and customs of their social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Their passionate convictions, bordering on proselytism, sometimes trouble their relationships, as they may be an uncompromising partner. They would do well to learn to recognize their own limitations and accept the responsibilities they have to other people, or they are liable to find themselves continually embroiled in conflicting relationships.

The roots of their somewhat extreme behavior probably lie in their relationship with their father or their teachers in childhood and adolescence. For one reason or another, they may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with their father, in the same way as they now refuse to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important life decision they make as an adult, they are forced to rely on themselves to elaborate the appropriate behavior, and the limits they must impose on their desires in relation to reality and the law.

Adaptation and Sensitivity:

An eloquent speaker and compulsive charmer, Jaime Adler has a powerful personal magnetism which may sometimes make her seem arrogant or smug. She cares a great deal about her reputation and will try hard to be admired and appreciated by the people around her. Fond of social events and parties, she likes to be the host, to entertain and charm a captive audience of guests. Indeed, she has special dramatic and artistic talents of the caliber necessary for success in film, theater, fashion, or art in general. She enjoys displaying her generosity, but she also displays a short temper at times; she is easily offended. Her partner will have to be a brilliant person, strong and sure of themselves, devoted to her and capable of enhancing her reputation.

Jaime Adler has a sensitive and affectionate nature. She seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Her relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and she has a natural sense of tact and social grace.

Jaime Adler does not always readily reveal herself, and she tends to protect her sensitivity. She has a penchant for intense emotions. Sexuality is a prominent element in her life, and her relationships, which are usually passionate, are motivated by her desires. She likes to understand the hidden side of people, their secret or unconfessed motivations. She would thus find a career which placed her in contact with troubled people especially rewarding.

Love and Sensuality:

Aware that Jaime Adler was taught to experience love in a certain way by her family, social class, or religion, she is determined to experiment with a new style. Her idealistic aspirations may be a form of escapism. They encourage her to cast off conventional romantic practices and customs and embark on new adventures.

Jaime Adler’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of their emotional urges and somewhat wary of their feelings, they try to rid themselves of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Radiant and generous, Jaime Adler is attractive and pleasing. Jaime Adler likes to be admired and is attached to proving Jaime Adler’s potential. However, Jaime Adler is always eager to help other people. In a relationship, Jaime Adler’s freedom will be primordial, and only a generous, brilliant person who respects Jaime Adler’s personality will suit Jaime Adler.

Jaime Adler’s love life is dominated by uncertainty. After some hesitation, they may get married, and then quickly regret their action, feeling unhappy in the relationship and misunderstood by their partner. Maturity should help them to distinguish between the conflicting desires responsible for this sense of unease. A shared sense of responsibility and a busy social life should also strengthen their marriage.

Jaime Adler has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of their main purposes in life. Their personal charm and magnetism are compellingly seductive; unfortunately, their attempts at conquest do not always lead to the fulfillment and satisfaction of their desires. Due to their impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, their approach to those they are attracted to may sometimes lack tact and delicacy. As a result of the foregoing, it may be somewhat difficult for them to maintain stable and harmonious relationships. Indeed, their emotional behavior is subject to a conflict between their quest for love and their need to satisfy their lust. Their outpourings of affection and their need to be loved in return sometimes create complicated situations in which lust may be confused with love, or love may exist without lust, and they may feel unrequited or unfulfilled. This inner contradiction is a sign of their tendency to derive pleasure from suffering – either their own or that of their partner. The relationship thus becomes the setting for a sort of power struggle, weakening it as a source of psychological equilibrium. Nevertheless, they could sublimate this difficulty through artistic expression.

Jaime Adler may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive them to seek pleasure. Their need for romantic fulfillment may compel them to marry, because they also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that they had indeed achieved success. However, privately, they might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, they might deny the commitments that their optimism and expansiveness made them rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting their romantic nature against the prerogatives of their career.

Jaime Adler has a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. Jaime is emotive and hypersensitive, making Jaime especially vulnerable emotionally, since Jaime is sometimes overwhelmed by Jaime’s feelings and affects. Although Jaime seeks an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom Jaime could maintain blissful, smooth relations, Jaime is sometimes met with disillusionment. Because Jaime’s rather excessive sensitivity and Jaime’s need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge Jaime’s judgment and discernment, so Jaime sometimes forms extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When Jaime meet someone, Jaime falls under the enchantment of Jaime’s dream of ideal love and cannot keep Jaime from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, Jaime yield to another of Jaime’s characteristic urges and lose Jaime in the individual who is so dear to Jaime, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find Jaime as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, Jaime’s psyche is constructed in such a way as to make Jaime’s sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before Jaime take on any major commitments, Jaime should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates Jaime’s intense love, for Jaime may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Jaime’s tendency to believe in Jaime’s illusions may mark Jaime as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for Jaime to find a different object for Jaime’s affections, or a form of sublimation, because Jaime tends to be so disappointed by Jaime’s great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of Jaime’s imagination procure artistic refinement for Jaime, and Jaime loves the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because Jaime’s sensitivity also makes it easy for Jaime to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties Jaime’s peers are struggling with, Jaime might also find it rewarding to commit Jaime to social work.

Mental and Intellect:

More theoretical than logical and more intuitive than rational, Jaime Adler’s thought patterns come to the fore when they are applied to a vast subject. Jaime is attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons; as a scholar, Jaime feels an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law. However, foreign languages or contacts abroad might also interest Jaime.