Dojna Mema is fairly individualistic and prefers to work on her own projects independently. She has a lack of confidence in herself and sometimes has challenges in relationships due to it. She also has a lack of self-esteem which sometimes inhibits her generosity and love.
Dojna Mema has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for her to gain access to this part of herself. She is confident in herself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. Sometimes she needs a little stimulation to get herself rolling and take some initiative. Her optimism and inner certainty do not always drive her to give her utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills she possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. She makes use of her theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for her would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
Dojna Mema is a free thinker and individualist who is convinced that her most precious basic values are freedom and independence. She has thrown off what she perceives as the burden of the convention and customs of her social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Her passionate convictions, bordering on proselytism, sometimes trouble her relationships, as she may be an uncompromising partner. She should learn to recognize her own limitations and accept the responsibilities she has to other people, or she is liable to find herself continually embroiled in conflicting relationships.
Dojna Mema is sensitive, receptive, and drawn to living in a state of osmosis with her surroundings. Her individuality seems to be diluted by a flood of sensations and impressions constantly washing over her, and it is often difficult for her to communicate her feelings to other people. This tide of emotion is an inspiration and intuition for her, but due to her lack of inner structure and organization, it is difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with others. She is not at all combative, and this hinders her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively. Her tendency to prefer fantasy to reality and her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. She must understand that by escaping from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she frees herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to the community or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.
Dojna Mema values freedom and independence above all else. She is very active in ensuring that her private life expresses these values. This is because she does not like to be tied down, and she does not trust herself to be emotionally involved in a relationship. As a result, she tends to intellectualize her emotions and feelings, and she feels most at home with friends than with love. She is very socially-minded, but idealistic, and she looks to the future.
Dojna Mema has a lively and curious intelligence, the very opposite of empty rhetoric and studiousness. She is agile and adaptable and can not only analyze difficult situations objectively but also demonstrate a profound comprehension when faced with a psychological problem.
Dojna Mema hides a fear of emotional commitment. The truth is, she prefers to observe life from afar rather than come down and dirty her hands in it. However, this fearful and distant attitude will not necessarily enable her to know and love herself better.
Dojna Mema is a complicated relationship partner. Her sensitivity and emotions are in conflict with her instincts, which makes her a fairly complicated person. She is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of her life, and her relationships are most often motivated by her desires. Nevertheless, due to her unconscious inner battle, she does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling her emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of her instincts, passion may overwhelm her and drag her into situations she cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Dojna Mema was taught to experience love in a certain way by her family, social class, or religion. She is determined to experiment with a new style. Her idealistic aspirations may be a form of escapism. They encourage her to cast off conventional romantic practices and customs and embark on new adventures.
Dojna Mema’s birth chart indicates that she has an emotional function that is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Dojna Mema is fairly independent and has trouble finding emotional fulfillment. Her youthful idealism subsided into disillusionment which has taught her to shield her sensitivity by being critical or ironic. Because she fears being overwhelmed by her feelings and does not readily yield to love, she prefers friendship. Her ideal partner would be original, tender, and reassuring, apt to instill cheerfulness in their relationship, and bright enough to stimulate her intellectually. Were she to marry too young or too soon, she might find herself trapped in a stultifying situation.
Dojna Mema prizes her freedom. She is subject to fall in love at first sight but will sometimes move on without any warning. She has a special art of communicating her energy and would rather have a good time and take pleasure in life with a freedom-loving companion than engage in an intense, passionate commitment. For her, the ideal match would be a partner who shared her aspirations for liberty.
You may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive you to seek pleasure. Your need for romantic fulfillment may compel you to marry, because you also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that you had indeed achieved success. However, privately, you might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, you might deny the commitments that your optimism and expansiveness made you rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting your romantic nature against the prerogatives of your career.
Dojna Mema felt an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law, but she also found herself attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons. As a scholar, she found herself drawn to foreign languages and contacts abroad.
Dojna Mema expresses her thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. She is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, she looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.
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