The Lonely experience their inner life as a process of growth and maturation, nurtured by their involvement with others and the positive and negative encounters this generates.

Destroy Lonely leads a life which is open to the outside world. His personal consciousness is forged by the heat of outer events. He is inclined to adopt the most objective viewpoint possible to be pragmatic and perhaps even materialistic.

Destroy Lonely considered his family to be deeply meaningful to him. He was attached to his childhood memories and the mysteries they represented to him. Mentally, he was a seeker and a questioner who enjoyed solving the mysteries of life. He was very conscious of the legacy he had received from his forebears and was eager to enrich it.

Destroy Lonely has a dynamic, mind-oriented personality. Their attitudes in life are spontaneous and direct; usually, they enhance their personal aura. A fiery idealist, they have a tendency to approach life a bit too idealistically. They may go from disillusionment to disillusionment without ever reflecting on their ways. Once they investigate their deeper needs and the limitations imposed by reality, they can achieve true stability after much work.

Destroy Lonely struggles to get into natural harmony with the physical world and the limitations and restraints it places upon him. Idealistic, he tends to be somewhat disconnected from practical considerations, and barely pays any attention to material things like food, money, his surroundings, and so on. He tends to be footloose and fancy-free, oblivious to the necessities of survival in the physical world, until his lack of material resources – an issue to which he usually grants no importance – becomes an emergency. This feeling of being out of touch with material things and the physical dimension of reality may sometimes lead him to see himself as unfit for this world. He may think he cannot attach himself to anything that would sustain his efforts at self-expression. However, his impractical nature offers many positive aspects. He sees life’s possibilities as limitless. He is apt to develop his imagination or pursue a spiritual quest in order to transcend the material world.

You work harder than others to understand other people’s feelings. But this seeming lack of empathy and compassion for others simply mirrors your own difficulty in understanding your own feelings and emotional needs. You are not insensitive, but you are baffled by your own emotions. You see the emotional world as a foreign terrain, perhaps fraught with hidden dangers. Becoming familiar with it would present more drawbacks than advantages. As a result, you may appear to be hard or aloof. You might struggle to establish a rewarding relationship, as you seek special individuals to bond with. If you were able to accept and understand your own emotions, you would have an easier time grappling with other people’s feelings. You have a strong desire for emotional independence, and might have trouble seeing other people’s emotional needs. You might even be the first to deny that such needs are real. As a result, your dependency on others is unconscious. Because it is seen as such a threat, it is repressed. Actually, although you offer conscious resistance to anyone who tries to lure you out of your emotional bubble, you are always making timid, half-conscious forays into the world of feelings, because your loneliness and fear are so unbearable.