Destroy Lonely searches for stability; but its efforts are often vain because it is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time it finds what it believes to be a good balance, it realizes it wants something entirely different. It would do well to become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.

At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This was a sign of harmony and balance between the masculine and feminine archetypes, and it was a very beneficial experience. You have a positive complementarity and understanding between your conscious and unconscious aspects of your personality, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents were almost certainly mirror images of this harmony to you, and they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.

You are an extremely sensitive person who is constantly surrounded by sensations and impressions. This can make it difficult for you to communicate your feelings to other people or to engage in any structured, analytical thought. It may be because as a child you didn’t understand the disciplinary measures your teachers used and so withdrew into yourself. This created a safe space for you to indulge in your inner life, which was important to you because it was something your teachers couldn’t invade. As a result, you may have difficulty seeing reality objectively and may instead create imaginary problems for yourself. Although your imagination is a source of inspiration and intuition, your fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for you to grasp the essence of your dreams and share them with other people. You are not at all combative, and this tends to hinder your efforts to fit into society and assert yourself productively. You are likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but your refusal to abandon your unattainable dreams is a psychological trap you have fallen into without realizing it. You must understand that by running away from your obligations and commitments, you only increase the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once you free yourself from this pernicious process, you have a great deal of potential for fulfilling yourself in the outer world, either by devoting yourself to some sort of social work or by cultivating your considerable artistic talents.

Destroy Lonely is generally motivated by activities which apply to social needs. It tends to give the best of itself in difficult situations which require crucial choices. Its ability to concentrate and its gift for solving problems by deductive reasoning are its chief resources in crisis situations or at turning points in its life.

Destroy Lonely searches for meaning in life. She has a unique ability to see the world beyond what is commonly seen. Travel is a big part of her life and she is always looking for ways to broaden her horizons.

Destroy Lonely has a sensitive personality. It may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. It is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in its behavior may be explained by emotional problems it may have experienced in infancy: its mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

Although you maintain a cool and distant demeanor, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and your refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself any emotional fulfillment whatsoever. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. The idea you have of yourself as an individual is related to the image your parents projected onto you as a child. Nevertheless, the past is history, and you are now an adult. Through self-work, you can rid yourself of these phantoms. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes, as well as great endurance and will power to achieve your goals. Nevertheless, you must not repress your sensitivity in order to succeed.

Destroy Lonely resents having to impose limitations on themselves, and may sometimes try to dodge obligations and commitments. The obstacles and hindrances reality places on their path to personal and social development tend to depress them. They sometimes brood bitterly about the frustrations to their self-fulfillment and might have a fairly pessimistic vision of society and its possibilities.

Destroy Lonely feels frustrated because sexuality is an important part of their life, but their relationships are most often determined by their instincts. They tend to be a rather excessive and tormented partner, who often re-evaluates the bonds that connect them to their partners.

Destroy Lonely enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of her expression. She is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of her affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. She may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.

Destroy Lonely’s birth chart indicates that she has an emotional function that is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

Although you are able to find many people to enjoy your company, only someone of exceptional qualities will be able to make you feel truly satisfied. This person is intelligent, successful and kind. If they don’t live up to your expectations, they will suffer in comparison.

Destroy Lonely has had a difficult time finding a partner that is compatible with them. They have had many relationships that have not lasted long because they are not sure if they can commit to someone for a longer period of time. They enjoy the thrill of the chase and the excitement of new relationships.

Destroy Lonely may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.

You are an ardent and amorous person, and your relationships with the other sex are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with your partners. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Love is often a matter of luck with you. Even when a relationship falls apart, you do not see the experience as a failure or a tragedy; instead, you seem to learn valuable lessons from your mistakes. Psychologically, your emotion contributes positively and efficiently to your evolution. From another standpoint, your acute sensitivity predisposes you to original and subtle tastes; you are so receptive to beauty and attached to the concepts of truth and balance that they may all combine to yield remarkable creative potential.

Destroy Lonely was the most powerful being in the galaxy. They were able to plot and communicate their ideal and had a determination that came to the forefront when it came to their purpose. They were both logical and astute and had gifts for theorizing but sometimes lacked perspective.