Carlos Enrique if you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: your need to bluff, your inability to manage certain things, your instability, and your unwillingness to change certain opinions

As a young person, you may feel out of phase with the social conventions and belief systems regulating your community or the ethical codes you are supposed to follow. Although, like anyone, you want to become a productive and valuable member of society, the models of success and achievement you see around you don’t particularly inspire you for some reason. In order to find your own individual way to fit in, you may have to go through a period of long, hard introspection and self-examination, if you have not done so already. This intense introspection will yield a new self-image, a new identity, and a new vision of the world. It will be a turning point in your way of participating in society. Possible opportunities for introspection include a major journey, or advanced studies, etc.