If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. As a result, you must rid yourself of these weaknesses if you want to progress: your excessive independence, your fear of commitment, your eccentricity, your instability, and your fear of intimacy.

As you suggested earlier, you are endowed with great sensitivity and have profound aspirations, especially romantic ones. Nevertheless, your spirit is sometimes too delicate for you to have armored and structured yourself for the constraints of life out there in the real world. Moreover, you see little point in devoting yourself to fulfilling the demands of practical reality, which strike you as rather futile and empty. Your escapes into your fantasy world give you the illusion of a much greater reward. You tend to gloss over your vision of other people, and when they reveal their imperfections and incompetence, you feel guilty for them and suffer from your own vulnerability and illusions. You would do well to try to be more selective about the people you associate with; when you are moving in a dream world, you attract the kind of dishonest people who are likely to take advantage of you.