If Bobby Scarnewman really wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His coolness and distance may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His lack of consideration for others may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His rigidity may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His need for total control may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His fear of his emotions may be holding him back and preventing his evolution.