If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: your coolness and distance, your lack of consideration for others, your rigidity, your need for total control, and your fear of your emotions.

B Young may experience discord in relationships. Although he is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, he often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, he should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If he succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship he and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Often B Young is too tense and irritable to stick to a task for long. He is easily bored and distracted, and his bouts of inattention usually keeps him from engaging in any action totally. He tends to start a multitude of projects, but rarely finishes them, because meanwhile he has started some new enterprises. It might be advisable for him to learn to coordinate his energies and actions, if he wants to avoid exhausting his vitality.

B Young may find herself feeling frustration and insecurity in her relations with other people, or in matters related to communication, until she finds the right direction for herself. She is fairly skeptical and sometimes overly rational, so she does not always trust in the power of her own imagination and emotions, and she is even more wary of other people’s imagination and emotions. Her approach is sometimes hindered by pessimism, and people may find her cynical. She would do well to learn to be more generous with herself in her intimate and social relationships instead of immediately snuffing out other people’s spontaneous expressions of hope and goodwill.