If you want to improve, you need to become aware of your weaknesses. Step one is to be aware of how your coolness and distance can hold you back, and how you don’t care about others. Step two is to be willing to consider others, and to be flexible. Step three is to be willing to let go of control, and to be willing to feel your emotions.

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Andre De Shields often finds himself overextending himself in his efforts to achieve wealth and social power. Although he enjoys life with its enthusiasm and confidence, he’s held back by his scattered behavior at times. He struggles to cross the finish line at times by juggling so many different activities, which often leads to him overextending himself.