Aitana Bonmatí practices controlling her emotional urges, striving for a superlative grip on her impulses. Although it is not an easy apprenticeship, she wants to be able to bear strain with patience, endurance, and stamina. More than anyone else, she is aware of the need for a solid and stable foundation as a prerequisite to any effective action.

Aitana Bonmatí was born under the auspices of two celestial “lights.” This auspicious sign is indicative of a harmonious balance between the masculine and feminine archetypes and is a source of great benefit. It is the foundation of a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of one’s psyche, between one’s drive for self-assertion and one’s receptivity, between one’s ideal and one’s sensitivity. As a result, Aitana enjoys a comfortable self-awareness and understanding of her personality, despite the fact that she does not strive to mirror her parents’ ideals. This allows her to maintain strong relationships with them and the rest of her family, as well as her peers. In her emotional relationships, the effect of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images her ego projects onto the other person are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt as constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, rather than regret. There are no major personal conflicts projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.

Aitana Bonmatí is affectionate by nature and loves playing a decisive and central role in her life. She is a charming person who needs to love and be loved. Aware of her personal magnetism and the power it gives her, she will make subtle changes in herself to attract positive attention. She is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle she sees as a consummate art.

Aitana Bonmatí is extremely sensitive and receptive, and she lives in a state of osmosis with her surroundings. Her individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are continually washing over her, and she often finds it difficult to communicate her feelings to other people. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but due to her lack of inner structure and organization, it is difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with other people. She is not at all combative, and this hinders her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively. Her tendency to prefer fantasy to reality and her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. She must understand that by escaping from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she free herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to the community or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.

Aitana Bonmatí is extremely sociable and in tune with others. A need for acceptance and respect drives her tactfulness and diplomacy; in fact, she will sometimes swallow her personal pride in the interests of the smooth running of the group. She is also fond of harmony and order in artistic terms; she is sensitive and discerning, and will avoid anything crude and vulgar. As a result, she is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. Relationships (the couple, or a partnership) take a central role in her life.

Aitana Bonmatí has a lively, agile, and sensitive intellect. However, she does not always avail herself of it, and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although she enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, her thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. She is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste her nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Additionally, her feelings sometimes blur her objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause her to make errors in judgment.

Aitana Bonmatí has a sensitive and affectionate nature. She seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Her relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and she has a natural sense of tact and social grace.

Because you were born with a strong sense of individuality, you quickly developed an original and independent identity. Your first taste of liberty may have led you to challenge the education and values you received from family and class tradition, and you were able to forge a strong, original personality and philosophy. Your relationships are usually free of conflict, because you are able to reconcile your need for independence with your desire for affection. However, your partners should be open and lively people, able to keep pace with you in your rapid evolution. You have an inspired and extremely lively wit and a brisk interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. You would be especially successful in communications-related careers like journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although you are an individualist, you have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and better its development.

Aitana Bonmatí has a sensitive and imaginative mind which can be a source of inspiration for creativity and spiritual evolution, but it can also be less helpful and positive in matters of earning a living. In a relationship, she is very romantic and does not always see others the way they are. She has elegant tastes and art and beauty are among her chief pleasures in life.

Aitana Bonmatí is often afraid to love – the world of her feelings is characterized by a certain chill and restraint. But she is not unfeeling; on the contrary, her sensitivity is so delicate that she is careful to protect it. Her determination to maintain control of her feelings and force her emotions to obey the laws of reason may stand in the way of intimacy and joy.

Aitana Bonmatí’s birth chart indicates a somewhat introverted emotional function which is influenced by the cultural values traditional to her family and social class. Because she does not always trust her emotional urges and reactions, she generally prefers to hang back and acquire some perspective before committing herself emotionally.

Aitana Bonmatí’s emotional involvement might be the source of some dissatisfaction for her. The usual romantic behavior and the lifestyle values prevailing in this area are not really appropriate for her. As a result, she seeks few intimate emotional relationships or contacts. She tends to stay in the background and fulfill her emotional needs by sublimating. She might not attain full romantic satisfaction until she reaches middle age.

Aitana Bonmatí is a charming person who is somewhat reserved. She is attracted to those she believes are virile and turns out to be weak, who she believed were tender but reveal themselves to be stoic. She then tries to shield her sensitivity with aloofness, though she loathes being alone. As she ages, she will be happier.

Aitana Bonmatí is sensible and level-headed on the outside, but she dreams of an extraordinary person who will carry her off, far from home and who, most of all, will cure her latent emotional depression. But real life is more mundane, and she may end up with an uninspiring partner who can offer neither security nor excitement. In the end, friendships could prove more rewarding.

Aitana Bonmatí has a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. She is emotive and hypersensitive, making her especially vulnerable emotionally, since she is sometimes overwhelmed by her feelings and affects. Although she seeks an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom she could maintain blissful, smooth relations, she is sometimes met with disillusionment. Because her rather excessive sensitivity and her need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge her judgment and discernment, so she sometimes forms extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When she meets someone, she falls under the enchantment of her dream of ideal love and cannot keep herself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, she yields to another of her characteristic urges and loses herself in the individual who is so dear to her, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find herself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, her psyche is constructed in such a way as to make her sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before she takes on any major commitments, she should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates her intense love, for she may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Her tendency to believe in her illusions may mark her as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for her to find a different object for her affections, or a form of sublimation, because she tends to be so disappointed by her great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of her imagination procure artistic refinement for her, and she loves the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because her sensitivity also makes it easy for her to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties her peers are struggling with, she might also find it rewarding to commit herself to social work.

Aitana Bonmatí considers the input from her subjectivity and emotions as dynamic which she tries to tune out to go straight to the essence of knowledge. As a result, regardless of her field of study, she tries to obtain perspective. She will elaborate a thought on the basis of fairly warm, abstract logic, supported by passionate, concise, and immaculate reasoning. Her choice areas of study could be mathematics, philosophy, legislation, or political science. Ideologies, theories, and any other system of reasoning could serve as “food for thought” for her.