Nigel Ng experiences his inner life as a process of growth and maturation, nurtured by his involvement with others and the positive and negative encounters this generates.
Because Nigel Ng is a social being oriented toward other people, his personal interests often mingle with those of his associates or those of the group to which he belongs. Nigel Ng is motivated by a need to work in common with other people and to share life’s pleasures and pain. Nigel Ng’s commitments to other people are of paramount importance to his personal development. This dependence may present difficulties with individual self-assertion and make it hard for Nigel Ng to make decisions alone. If Nigel Ng wants to achieve inner equilibrium, he must behave in such a way that his actions yield benefits to others as well as himself.
While Nigel Ng is attracted to interpersonal activities, his significant need for inner security may stand in the way of his overtures to others. Since Nigel is highly receptive to other people’s inner natures, he seeks tight bonds with others. Nigel unconsciously needs their psychological support in his quest for himself. Were Nigel to evaluate his psychological development, he would place more value upon human warmth, intimacy, and the need to share than on intellectual understanding or personal freedom of expression.
Nigel Ng has a tendency to identify with others. He forms friendships easily and naturally and enjoys participating in other people’s lives. Sociable, he enjoys being seen and appreciate popularity and recognition. Solitude bores him. His life and personal relations are in sync with his friendships and outer events. Most often, he shares the opinion of others.
Sentimental and emotional, Nigel Ng lives in a world which is in continual contact with his dreams and subconscious. Nigel cannot live without love, and, like water which flows into and takes on the shape of the vessel which contains it, Nigel is always ready to submerge himself in another person. Stirred by forces Nigel does not control, Nigel may be aroused by passions which are impervious to the restraints of reason and logic. Nigel is an emotive creature in harmony with the flow of his feelings, impulses, and urges.
The numerous contradictions and tensions which are a recurrent feature of Nigel Ng’s astral theme balance each other out and endow him with a stable, well-tempered character. Indeed, they are especially likely to protect him from unsolvable frustrations and, in terms of reality, will enable him to acquire a certain social and professional success without too much effort on his part. At that point, Nigel Ng must be careful not to take on too many responsibilities. His confidence in his ability to accomplish things may make him spread himself too thin.