If you really want to improve and transform Miranda Cosgrove, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution:
– her insatiable appetites
– her stubbornness
– her grimness
her reluctance to change

Miranda Cosgrove may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Miranda should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Miranda succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

As a result of her great ambitions, Miranda Cosgrove is fairly organized. She is able to work long and hard to achieve her goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect herself against any foreseeable obstacles. She is so absorbed in her business she does not always realize that she tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around her and that she might do well to soften her tone and be more tactful at times. Her friendships seem stifling and superfluous to her, and she is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when she is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, she needs to work to be less dogmatic. She needs to trust in herself and other people and be more flexible.