If Lilliana Ketchman really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution: – her continual need for security – her tendency to escape into fantasy – her hunger for approval – her longing for the past – her fear of the future – her investment systems
Lilliana Ketchman may experience discord in relationships. Although Lilliana Ketchman is friendly and outgoing and commits Lilliana Ketchman to friendships and partnerships, Lilliana Ketchman often finds it difficult to balance Lilliana Ketchman’s own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.
To understand and overcome this problem, Lilliana Ketchman should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Lilliana Ketchman succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Lilliana Ketchman and Lilliana Ketchman’s partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.