Lilia’s psyche follows an introverted flow. She knows herself and attempts to develop her inner resources to their maximum potential.
Because Lilia is a social being oriented toward other people, her personal interests often mingle with those of her associates or those of the group to which she belongs. Lilia is motivated by a need to work in common with other people and to share life’s pleasures and pain. Lilia’s commitments to other people are of paramount importance to her personal development. This dependence may present difficulties with individual self-assertion and make it hard for Lilia to make decisions alone. If Lilia wants to achieve inner equilibrium, she must behave in such a way that her actions yield benefits to others as well as herself.
While Lilia is attracted to interpersonal activities, her significant need for inner security may stand in the way of her overtures to others. Since Lilia is highly receptive to other people’s inner natures, she seeks tight bonds with others. She unconsciously needs their psychological support in her quest for herself. Were Lilia to evaluate her psychological development, she would place more value upon human warmth, intimacy, and the need to share than on intellectual understanding or personal freedom of expression.
Lilia has a tendency to identify with others. Lilia forms friendships easily and naturally and enjoys participating in other people’s lives. Sociable, Lilia enjoys being seen and appreciates popularity and recognition. Solitude bores Lilia. Lilia’s life and personal relations are in sync with Lilia’s friendships and outer events. Most often, Lilia shares the opinion of others.
Lilia is aware of a lack of confidence in herself and in life. Prone to apathy, as if deprived of optimism and cheerfulness at some time, she may often be discouraged by the strains of living. This reluctance to accept the challenges of existence, which she may perceive as a major problem, may be the result of a self-image which is elusive or flawed. Perhaps, as a child, she was not given the means to develop an ideal image due to the lack of an appropriate role model or caregiver.
As a result, she is unable to move herself toward an improved, more positive disposition. She may reject any challenge that would enable her to surpass her current self, or accept it only after long meditation.
Steeped in the awareness of her problem, she may be tormented and wish to change. Vigorous physical exercise and an effort to visualize an admirable figure would be beneficial to her, as well as a diet that includes vitality-bolstering vitamins and protein.