Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:
Lilia seems passive and more or less resigned to her fate, including her insecurity. Actually, Lilia is fairly introverted and withdrawn, trying to make sense out of her inner confusion and fathom her inner depths.
Lilia’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling her psyche. Because her sensitivity is in conflict with her determination, her attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, she has the feeling she has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging her yearnings and fulfilling her ambitions. Her unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of her conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage her plans. In her relationships, the images she builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on her nerves. She finds it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
Lilia is an ardent free thinker and individualist who is convinced that her most precious basic values are freedom and independence. She has thrown off what she perceives as the burden of the convention and customs of her social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Her passionate convictions, bordering on proselytism, sometimes trouble her relationships, as she may be an uncompromising partner. She would do well to learn to recognize her own limitations and accept the responsibilities she has to other people, or she is liable to find herself continually embroiled in conflicting relationships.
The roots of her somewhat extreme behavior probably lie in her relationship with her father or her teachers in childhood and adolescence. For one reason or another, she may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with her father, in the same way as she now refuses to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important life decision she makes as an adult, she is forced to rely on herself to elaborate the appropriate behavior, and the limits she must impose on her desires in relation to reality and the law.
Lilia is extremely sensitive and receptive and tends to live in osmosis with her surroundings. Her individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are continually washing over her, and she sometimes finds it difficult to communicate her feelings to other people. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but her fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with other people. She is not at all combative, and this tends to hinder her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively.
She is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. She must understand that by running away from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she frees herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to some sort of social work or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.
Adaptation and Sensitivity:
Lilia is usually cool and distant in demeanor, and she represses her feelings and sensitivity to avoid situations where she might have to express them. This inhibition is related to a feeling of not having been loved enough. In many cases, to the detriment of her love life, Lilia is capable of plunging all her energy into her work. She seeks social recognition through her career achievements.
Celebrity Lilia has a lively and curious intelligence, the very opposite of empty rhetoric and studiousness. Celebrity Lilia is agile and adaptable and can not only analyze difficult situations objectively but also demonstrate a profound comprehension when faced with a psychological problem.
Lilia has a sensitive personality. Lilia may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. Lilia is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in Lilia’s behavior may be explained by emotional problems Lilia may have experienced in infancy: Lilia’s mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Lilia is shy and cautious, hiding her sensitivity behind a cool, aloof exterior. She is conservative, respectful of tradition and convention, and likes to follow the rules. Because she needs stability to alleviate her feelings of frustration and sometimes emotional dependency, she has great faith in contracts which seal relationships. Her ties to her past are fairly strong. They are a source of reassurance and safety, because her parents likely gave a lot to her.
Love and Sensuality:
Lilia’s attractions are usually immediate and intense. They rise quickly to fever pitch. The story of these passions is often dramatic to excess, combining all the plot elements of a classic love tragedy: jealousy, possessiveness, agony as an erotic stimulant, etc.
Lilia’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Although Lilia is not very demonstrative, Lilia is nevertheless the sentimental type, and Lilia suffers bitterly when Lilia is unloved. Full of contradictions, Lilia tries to shelter Lilia’s feelings by remaining aloof, although Lilia cannot bear solitude… It will be hard for Lilia to attain emotional happiness, and Lilia will no doubt seek compensation in Lilia’s career. Lilia will be happier as Lilia ages and may marry for a second time.
Lilia will have a strong sexual aura and considerable sway over other people, but this does not always imply love. Lilia’s feelings tend to be mysterious; for example, Lilia may derive erotic fulfillment from anguish. Lilia is attracted to sensual and complicated partners who draw Lilia into tormented love affairs. A power struggle, or perhaps even a confrontation, may prove to be necessary in relationships where storms and recriminations will probably be inevitable.
Lilia may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.
Lilia has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, Lilia tends to be overwhelmed by Lilia’s imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Lilia’s romantic and trusting nature may make Lilia vulnerable. Although Lilia strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, Lilia sometimes experiences painful disappointments. Lilia’s artistic delicacy and refinement provide Lilia with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. Lilia is likely to be a gifted poet.
Mental and Intellect:
Curious, skeptical, and pragmatic, celebrity Lilia has a shrewd, inquisitorial mind. Lilia always tries to detect the hidden mechanisms and processes behind the phenomena Lilia observes. As a result, Lilia has developed an ability to detect the truth behind appearances and the cause behind the effect. Although this way of thinking is based on a certain logic, and there is evidence of structure and cohesion in Lilia’s deductive approach, it is not always purely intellectual. Indeed, its sources lie in a certain empiricism, in facts which have been experienced, so it is open to improvement. For this reason, its fields of application are highly diverse, although research in the hard sciences, psychology, and metaphysics seem to be the best career choices.
Lilia tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. Her thoughts are usually structured, and her reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
Lilia has a lively and agile spirit, but tends to apply her mental abilities in a somewhat haphazard and disorderly way. She is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of either dogmatism or prejudice. Her extremely lively mind leads her to have an opinion on every subject.
Although she enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses others and herself with witty remarks, her conversations could collapse into argument and conflict.
Because she is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform her ideas, she is sometimes misunderstood. She is often blind to the rashness of her judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around her. Actually, her overriding need to assert herself as an individual sometimes defeats discussion and prevents her from listening to the other person fairly. But if she were to succeed in disciplining her mind somewhat, she would have innumerable opportunities to apply her communications skills to a great career.
Moreover, she should be careful of her nerves, which are fairly high-strung. Any physical fitness activity would be beneficial; an Eastern discipline such as yoga or Tai-chi-chuan could teach her how to relax and improve control of her nervous and mental energies.