Of a fairly introspective nature, Lilia is attentive to their special inner qualities which enable them to perceive the very essence of the people they meet, the situations they encounter, and the objects they see. Lilia has the ability to understand through their intuition. This faculty is based upon an openness to the other, and thus a certain duality: a budding extroversion, and the predominance of the object over the subject (yourself) in your consciousness. As a result, Lilia has a strong sense of the group and would sacrifice their own ego rather than commit something that is a sin in your eyes, neglecting their social obligations or failing to fulfill their duties to the people they are close to. Lilia can sometimes be perceived by others as unreliable or untrustworthy, due to a sort of opportunism or disloyalty.
However, these are superficial characteristics. The real reason for your behavior is psychological and resides in the fact that you are ready to do anything to maintain the harmony of the group (or simply satisfy the expectations of the other). However, you sometimes lack self-assertion, and this makes you contradictory and unreliable when you face certain superficial decisions.
Moreover, Lilia has a chameleon-like ability to blend in with situations and prevailing moods. Lilia is thus quite a success in social settings, and Lilia thrives on friendships, partnerships, networks, and corporate liaisons. Your mind is amazingly flexible, arranging harmonious and productive encounters between people and ideas. All of your emotional health is invested in a desire to participate, to mingle, to exchange. Although you are consciously aware of an ardent desire to be sociable, unconsciously you blame yourself for failing to achieve your ideal goal, which always seems to elude you. This is why you sometimes have phases of discouragement, followed by renewed zeal in your work efforts or group participation. Because you are always seeking the perfect group, the ideal form of cooperation, you sometimes despair of ever attaining it. You have a natural tendency to find common ground for people, to reconcile differing opinions and viewpoints, and you are partial to any arrangement which promotes cooperation or fellowship.
Because you are not aggressive by nature, you know how to make peace; you are a skillful diplomat and go-between. As a corollary to your opening to society, you are closely related to your environment. The society in which you move contributes in large part to the formation of your character and attitude. Through social contacts and friendships, you have elaborated a personal code of ethics which reconciles societal norms and the values your family, friends, and relations have passed on to you. It is important for you to find a way to make all these components harmonize, or you will feel a bit lost and bewildered. You need recognition. You sometimes attach great importance to other people’s opinions of you. You enjoy love and appreciation and are touched by praise as much as you are upset by criticism. You have a vital need for others and loathes solitude. Emotional functions are central to your psyche, and the encounter with a kindred spirit could be a turning point for you, a momentous event in your life. Since you are aware of this, and your tactfulness makes you quite successful with your love interests, you may be content to go from affair to affair without ever settling down, out of the fear of shutting out an even greater possibility for passionate love.
You love to charm and be charmed and excel at the subtle art of amorous conquest, the pleasure of laughter and chat which hints at the promise of even greater pleasure in store. You are skilled at alluding to unnamed urges while seeming to engage in polite conversation.
Lilia is highly aware of psychological, metaphysical, or mystical questions. The future may hold a complete psychological metamorphosis in store for Lilia.
Lilia has a sense of selfless duty and devotion. Work is one of the most important aspects of life for Lilia.
At the time of Lilia’s birth, her rising sign was located in Taurus (the Bull), while the sun was passing through the sign of Libra (the Scales). A summary of the various clues mentioned above provide Lilia’s personality profile. The following key words capture the essence of Lilia’s character and indicate certain contradictions which may create tension:
Sociability – Opposition to progress – Adaptability – Compassion – Sensitivity – Perseverance – Tolerance – Pragmatism – Peaceful nature – Productivity – Sense of harmony – Sensuality – Worldly cares.
Inclined by temperament to build a harmonious life for herself, Lilia is drawn to human warmth and cannot be happy unless she has achieved healthy, stable emotional relations.
Lilia delights in her power to please and seduce and has a pronounced taste for art and beauty. Lilia’s sensual side, combined with her talents for harmony and rhythm, and an ear for melody would make her successful as a musical composer, an architect, or any other artistic career which requires a keen sense of beauty.
Born three and a half to seven days after the rising of the new moon, Lilia is said to be a “crescent moon” lunar type. This “soli-lunar” configuration indicates that Lilia may need to make an effort to free herself from the past. Something related to her childhood, parents, or ancestors is holding her back, impairing her effectiveness and could stand to be overcome.
Due to her past, Lilia refuses tried-and-true models, is always fighting to justify her innovative viewpoints, and tends to break away from tradition. Lilia is hardly ever aware that she is making career and lifestyle choices which are based on an urge to modify her relationship to society, and the rigid standards and models from the past.