Kalani Hilliker’s psyche follows an introverted flow. She knows herself and attempts to develop her inner resources to their maximum potential.

Because Kalani Hilliker is a social being oriented toward other people, her personal interests often mingle with those of her associates or those of the group to which she belongs. Kalani Hilliker is motivated by a need to work in common with other people and to share life’s pleasures and pain. Kalani Hilliker’s commitments to other people are of paramount importance to her personal development. This dependence may present difficulties with individual self-assertion and make it hard for Kalani Hilliker to make decisions alone. If Kalani Hilliker wants to achieve inner equilibrium, she must behave in such a way that her actions yield benefits to others as well as herself.

Kalani has a tendency to identify with others. Kalani forms friendships easily and naturally and enjoys participating in other people’s lives. Sociable, Kalani enjoys being seen and appreciates popularity and recognition. Solitude bores Kalani. Kalani’s life and personal relations are in sync with Kalani’s friendships and outer events. Most often, Kalani shares the opinion of others.

Thought, intuition, and inner perceptions predominate in Kalani Hilliker’s psyche. Open and curious, optimistic and enthusiastic, Kalani is eager to participate in everything happening around her.

Kalani’s affections are lively and spontaneous, but may be more intellectual than sensual. In a partner, Kalani would seek a source of mutual spiritual or artistic inspiration.

Light-hearted and perhaps even fickle, Kalani never allows herself to be overcome by outer realities or emotions. In its most exaggerated form, Kalani’s buoyancy borders on indifference.

Kalani Hilliker works harder than others to understand other people’s feelings. But this seeming lack of empathy and compassion for others simply mirrors Kalani’s own difficulty in understanding their own feelings and emotional needs. Kalani is not insensitive, but is baffled by their own emotions. Kalani sees the emotional world as a foreign terrain, perhaps fraught with hidden dangers. Becoming familiar with it would present more drawbacks than advantages. As a result, Kalani may appear to be hard or aloof.

Kalani might struggle to establish a rewarding relationship, as they seek special individuals to bond with. If Kalani were able to accept and understand their own emotions, they would have an easier time grappling with other people’s feelings.

Kalani has a strong desire for emotional independence, and might have trouble seeing other people’s emotional needs. Kalani might even be the first to deny that such needs are real.

As a result, Kalani’s dependency on others is unconscious. Because it is seen as such a threat, it is repressed. Actually, although Kalani offers conscious resistance to anyone who tries to lure them out of their emotional bubble, Kalani is always making timid, half-conscious forays into the world of feelings, because their loneliness and fear are so unbearable.