If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.
Your coolness and distance may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.
Your lack of consideration for others may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.
Your rigidity may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.
Your need for total control may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.
Your fear of your emotions may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.