Bryce Gheisar is ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure he has chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of himself, his abilities, and his shortcomings, his strengths and his weaknesses, would no doubt be most effective and would allow him to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.
You have a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding your identity. You may have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life. Because you might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
Bryce Gheisar enjoys sharing and has a constant need for contact with other people. He tends to be free and uninhibited in his relations with other people, rarely allowing himself to be influenced by convention or prevailing opinion; he associates with whomever he pleases. This attitude makes his life refreshing and exciting, and he is never bored. In career terms, Bryce Gheisar is quite gifted for any field related to communication, where his intellectual singularity and lively wit would make him an amazing hit. He would also be likely to succeed in any activity where the work required a multidisciplinary approach: teaching, advertising, politics, etc.
Bryce Gheisar is pragmatic and realistic. He evaluates people and things according to practical, common-sense criteria instead of abstract concepts. A sensualist and lover of luxury, he has a penchant for material comfort and takes great joy in physical pleasures. In relation to others, socially and privately, he likes to build stable relationships and is not especially fond of change. His warmth gives him a great deal of ease when meeting people, as clients (for business purposes), but his close relations also benefit from this affection and his ability to express his feelings naturally and openly.
You are an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find you generous almost to a fault! You give of yourself and your resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when you are self-focused. You react instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and are prone to misjudge. As a result, your everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, you sense a conflict between your social life and your family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill yourself in both spheres at the same time. Your attitude toward your private life may inhibit your ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on your private life. You should be careful not to project your personal problems onto your partner. If, instead, the two of you analyzed the problem, you might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
Bryce Gheisar felt a sense of unease as he woke from his dream. Although the dream had felt disturbingly real, it was difficult to distinguish it from reality. He was always hypersensitive to the slightest nuance in his environment, so he was not surprised that his dream had been so realistic. However, he was troubled by the way it had reinforced his feeling of isolation and vulnerability. In a relationship, Bryce Gheisar was often too romantic and idealistic. He saw others as perfect, rather than recognizing their flaws and imperfections.
Bryce Gheisar studied love in a new way, experimenting with ideals instead of conventional practices. He found escape in his aspirations, enjoying new adventures.
Bryce Gheisar was born with an emotional function that is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, Bryce is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Bryce Gheisar is relatively peaceful and simple. His top priority is efficiency, and he seeks security in a long-term relationship or marriage. He is fairly well-balanced and quite likely to find a loyal, hardworking companion to whom he will be devoted. He will be fairly possessive of them in the beginning and is then liable to be that way about his children, if he chooses to have them.
As Bryce Gheisar's freedom and independence are all-important to him, his inner balance is disturbed as soon as his emotions are involved and the time comes to make a commitment. This ambivalent attitude is responsible for the various crises that rocked his romantic relationships in his youth. Maturity and experience should help him to overcome this phobia, allowing him to enjoy an independent social life while at the same time fulfilling his need to love and be loved in the sanctuary of his home.
You are often drawn to lovers who challenge social norms. You find excitement and fascination in those who are different from you, and are attracted to those who can amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when you are in an intimate relationship. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you demand a lot of autonomy and liberty which can be inimical to intimacy. If your partner captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you. Otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person. Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. Your insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keep you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.
Bryce Gheisar is attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons; as a scholar, he feels an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law. However, foreign languages or contacts abroad might also interest him.
Bryce Gheisar expresses his thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. He is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, Bryce looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.
Bryce Gheisar has a charming personality that is a great advantage to him socially. However, in situations where he must compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, Bryce may be somewhat at a loss for how to behave. Bryce has an undeniable gift for oratory which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which Bryce excels.