Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:
Brendon Urie is searching for stability. He wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for his life. But his efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, he is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time he reaches what he believes to be a good balance, he realizes he wants something entirely different. He should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.
Brendon Urie has a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding his identity. Perhaps his father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during his childhood, which deprived him of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because he might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, he was forced to protect himself against negative influences and find his own system in order to grow and feel secure.
Although this system was quite useful to him as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with his evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber his mind or inhibit his developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for him to assert himself, and he tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because his authoritarian urges are mainly directed at himself rather than others, he sometimes feels guilty about his behavior. He judges himself severely, and sometimes punishes himself by setting difficult tasks for himself. Gradually, he should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
Brendon Urie is fairly strong-willed, and is mindful of going about his purposes with maximum efficiency. When he relates to other people, he sometimes has trouble expressing his emotions, but he does have a lively sensitivity and is capable of lasting passion. As he grows older, he is quite likely to come into his own and acquire great intellectual and spiritual wisdom. His honesty, integrity, and sense of duty will win him recognition and appreciation. Passing time will be a very important factor in his destiny, and his greatest accomplishments will guarantee him stability and prosperity. Although he is not especially enterprising, he will move into a high career position as soon as he feel sure of his abilities.
I have a nagging feeling of insecurity which affects my psychology and dampens my natural enthusiasm. My need to take action and assert myself is sometimes disturbed by this gnawing fear.
Brendon Urie enjoys sharing and has a constant need for contact with other people. He tends to be free and uninhibited in his relations with other people, rarely allowing himself to be influenced by convention or prevailing opinion; he associates with whomever he pleases. This attitude makes his life refreshing and exciting, and he is never bored. In career terms, he is quite gifted for any field related to communication, where his intellectual singularity and lively wit would make him an amazing hit. He would also be likely to succeed in any activity where the work required a multidisciplinary approach: teaching, advertising, politics, etc.
Adaptation and Sensitivity:
Extremely sociable, Brendon is instinctively in tune with others. A need to be accepted and respected makes Brendon tactful and diplomatic; in fact, Brendon will sometimes swallow Brendon’s personal pride in the interests of the smooth running of the group. Brendon is also fond of harmony and order in artistic terms; Brendon is sensitive and discerning, and will avoid anything crude and vulgar. As a result, Brendon is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. Relationships (the couple, or a partnership) take a central role in Brendon’s life.
Brendon Urie has a sensitive nature. Although he may sometimes have trouble controlling his emotional reactions, they are nevertheless a source of vital energy for a constructive passion and may make an extremely positive contribution to his career. In relations with other people, he is quite friendly; he willingly reaches out to people and knows how to listen to their desires and their problems.
Brendon Urie is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find him generous almost to a fault! He gives of himself and his resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when he is self-focused. He reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and are prone to misjudge. As a result, his everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, he senses a conflict between his social life and his family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill himself in both spheres at the same time. His attitude toward his private life may inhibit his ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on his private life. He should be careful not to project his personal problems onto his partner. If, instead, the two of you analyzed the problem, you might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
Despite Brendon Urie’s desire to devote himself to the creation of a mild and harmonious emotional climate, he sometimes encounters friction with others. His vision of other people is sometimes clouded by feelings of insecurity, and his need to obtain acceptance at any price may sometimes drive him to make too many concessions or compromises.
Brendon Urie is extremely sensitive and imaginative, and sometimes has trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although his bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern his self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient. In a relationship, he is extremely romantic and does not always see others the way they really are.
Love and Sensuality:
Brendon Urie’s sensitivity may sometimes overwhelm his partners, and his compassion for the other is profound. He readily sacrifices his own interest to others, to provide help and assistance. A romantic as well as an idealist, he sometimes lack discernment in the choice of his partners. He is fairly confused and evasive and has trouble expressing his feelings clearly. Nevertheless, he is capable of devoting himself entirely to the person he love. He has a tendency to daydream and become lost in himself.
Brendon Urie’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, he is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Brendon Urie is extremely understanding and knows how to empathize and get whatever he wants without even asking. His artistic nature requires refined and elegant surroundings. Indeed, he enjoys the social whirl and is a talented hostess. In a relationship, he requires perfect harmony of feeling. Only a scrumptious person who is attentive, admiring, and perfectly understanding will be able to fulfill him.
Paradox or instability may reign at times in Brendon Urie’s love life. There is some chance Brendon Urie will break some hearts around Brendon Urie with Brendon Urie’s lack of commitment. Brendon Urie attracts sentimental or naive partners of whom Brendon Urie usually tires quickly. Quarrels and reconciliation may alternate under Brendon Urie’s roof if Brendon Urie satisfies Brendon Urie with a person who is not really a good match for Brendon Urie. Several marriages or unions are likely.
Brendon Urie is hypersensitive and tends to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. Brendon is exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. Brendon will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. Brendon is sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to him. Brendon usually hides emotional reactions or does not even allow them to reach the level of his consciousness, in an effort to protect sensitivity, which Brendon sees as a weak point. Brendon is fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, Brendon will disguise strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside Brendon, and Brendon feel unworthy of the love which is lavished on him. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of Brendon’s desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, Brendon’s fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of Brendon’s romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if Brendon wants to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify himself emotionally, the defense mechanisms Brendon has elaborated to make himself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled. Any profound relationship will also require that Brendon learn how to forget himself occasionally in the other.
Mental and Intellect:
Brendon Urie is an intuitive thinker. He does not reason things out through a long, articulate, logical discourse; instead, he seizes the visions or insights that spontaneously flash into his consciousness. He thus has a form of immediate knowledge of various phenomena which is based neither on reasoning nor on any elaborate thought process or method. As a result, if Brendon Urie is an extrovert, he will possess an inventive, innovative spirit gifted for improvisation. If Brendon Urie is an introvert, his mind will be an abundant source of personal inner truths.
Brendon expresses his thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. He is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, Brendon looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.