If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These may include your coolness and distance, your lack of consideration for others, your rigidity, your need for total control, and your fear of your emotions.

Bora Zemani is something of a social butterfly. Although she claims to be looking for a soulmate, it is tough for her to remain interested in any one partner for very long. She enjoys the mental stimulation of bubbly, worldly relationships with a variety of people. If she allows herself to become aware of the scope of her frustration, she might understand that her pleasure-seeking attitude is merely a flight from her true self.