If Blueface really wants to improve and transform, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding back and preventing evolution:
– excessive independence
– fear of commitment
– eccentricity
– instability
– fear of intimacy

You sometimes sense a conflict between Blueface’s desire for social and professional success and his need for a stable, secure domestic life. Blueface is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on him. Sometimes it feels as though Blueface will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy Blueface if he has neglected his most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to Blueface to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if Blueface merely sacrifices his domestic life, he is only trying to fool himself. Blueface should accept the fact that his domestic life is the true basis and foundation of his development. All Blueface’s career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Blueface reacts peremptorily to all opposition and will brook no contradiction. Blueface’s desires are sometimes imperious, and Blueface expresses them impulsively, by fits and starts, which may elicit resentment and antagonism in Blueface’s partners. Life will force Blueface to set more universal goals and centers of interest for Blueface. It would be a good idea for Blueface to release some excess internal tension through physical exercise.

Whenever Blueface encounters direct resistance, he might find himself beset by frustration. If the resistance lasts, he may eventually be overwhelmed by anxiety, nervous tension, and discouragement. In addition, Blueface has the ability to focus his strength and leadership potential on problems which require immediate solutions. His lack of patience and persistence may spur problems.

Blueface can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although they frequently change their opinion and don’t hold a grudge. They abhor conflict and are a good listener. Their key to self-improvement will be learning to control their impressionability.

Blueface’s mental processes are lightning quick. As a result, they tend to jump to conclusions and make immediate decisions before they know all the facts. This rash and impetuous behavior could cause communications problems and arouse needless opposition in others. Blueface’s mind is generally too busy with the immediate future to take time for careful analysis and reflection. They would do well to slow down and organize themselves before they speak. However, the same behavior has a positive side. It can be of great use to them in rushed or quickly changing work situations, which require last-minute, immediate decisions.

To trust Blueface better and gain self-assurance, the first thing Blueface must do is learn to say no. Once Blueface is capable of saying no to others, Blueface can say yes to life. Blueface must develop Blueface’s awareness of all the things Blueface loves and feel positive about, as well as all the changes Blueface hopes to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support Blueface, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of Blueface’s personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when Blueface was helpless may be obstacles to Blueface’s evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent Blueface from daring to confront challenges Blueface would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons Blueface yields to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to Blueface that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of Blueface’s identity. However, the more often Blueface reinforces this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware Blueface becomes of Blueface’s true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced Blueface’s pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for Blueface to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside Blueface that claims Blueface doesn’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of Blueface could undermine Blueface’s vitality and force Blueface to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, Blueface limits Blueface’s power to bring about a positive change in Blueface or Blueface’s life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free Blueface, the first step is to free Blueface from the fears which prevent Blueface from taking full advantage of life. Blueface can succeed if Blueface arranges a relaxed, positive environment for Blueface, establishes sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which Blueface can practice relaxation exercises.