If Blair Underwood wants to improve, she must become aware of the weaknesses that may be holding her back and preventing her evolution. These weaknesses are her perfectionism, her tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, her over intellectualization, and her comfort with a constant state of worry.

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

In Blair Underwood’s efforts to accumulate wealth and social power, she sometimes betrays a lack of toleration for other people’s belief systems and values. Although Blair trusts her own talent for business, finance, and investments thoroughly, she is liable to make some errors in judgment. Because Blair identifies so strongly with her own individual habits and work routines and isn’t as keen to learn from others, she may waste her energy at times.

For Blair Underwood, healthy emotional development will require a conscious adaptation, because she is still the captive of sensations which have never been clarified, and, as a result, her sensitivity cannot really blossom fully. Although she seeks close relationships and intimacy with people she trusts to give her love and support, she sometimes feels alienated from other people and may withdraw into a remote bubble. Were she to open herself fully to the world of relations with others, by the means of continual, subtle changes, she could prepare herself for a total metamorphosis of her destiny. Both her sensitivity and her relationships would have access to a new path, more altruistic, open, and dedicated to others.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first step is to learn to say no. Once you are capable of saying no to others, you can say yes to life. You must develop your awareness of all the things you love and feel positive about, as well as all the changes you hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support you, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of your personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when you were helpless may be obstacles to your evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent you from daring to confront challenges you would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons you yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to you that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of your identity. However, the more often you reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware you become of your true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced your pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for you to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside you that claims you don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of you could undermine your vitality and force you to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, you limit your power to bring about a positive change in yourself or your life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free yourself, the first step is to free yourself from the fears which prevent you from taking full advantage of life. You can succeed if you arrange a relaxed, positive environment for yourself, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which you can practice relaxation exercises.