If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Big Smo understands that excessive independence, fear of commitment, eccentricity, instability, and fear of intimacy can all be hindrances to personal growth. If you are willing to confront and work through these weaknesses, you can begin to transform yourself into the successful person that you know you can be.
Relationships can often experience discord. Although you are friendly and outgoing, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what kind of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
Big Smo is sometimes too impulsive and unrealistic in their efforts to accumulate wealth and social power. Although they engage in life with enthusiasm and confidence and would be capable of developing some truly innovative social concepts, they are held back by their somewhat scattered behavior. They tend to spread themselves too thin, juggling so many different activities that they struggle to cross the finish line at times.
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