If you want to improve your performance, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your success:- your excessive independence- your fear of commitment- your eccentricity- your instability- your fear of intimacy

Big Show: Although you are friendly and outgoing and commit yourself to friendships and partnerships, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Big Show was sometimes too impulsive and unrealistic in his efforts to accumulate wealth and social power. Although he engaged in life with enthusiasm and confidence and would be capable of developing some truly innovative social concepts, he was held back by his somewhat scattered behavior. He tended to spread himself too thin, juggling so many different activities that he struggled to cross the finish line at times.