What does B-Lovee’s psychology tell us about them?

B-Lovee is patient. She is fond of routine, ritual, and any other events or ceremonies which mark the passage of time and the seasons. She tries to be as pragmatic as possible and unconsciously senses that her relationship with material things will be the best foundation for her self-development and individuation. As a result, she is attached to her possessions and will make every effort to cling to them.

B-Lovee, you have a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding your identity. Perhaps your father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during your childhood, which deprived you of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because you might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

B-Lovee has great strength of character. Her courage and endurance enable her to accomplish even extremely arduous tasks. Although she sometimes behaves impulsively, she generally knows how to plan out an effective strategy, and, as a result, she reaches her goals without meeting any major obstacles. Her forcefulness gives her certain leadership skills, which she may implement to creative and constructive ends.

The personality of B-Lovee is complex and at times rather extremist. Their instinctual drive dwarfs mere rationalism, and they find the dark side of existence alluring and are attracted to mystery and the occult. They delightedly immerse themselves in the depths of human experience, stretching their intellectual, emotional, and spiritual resources to their maximum.

B-Lovee is a gentle, sensitive person who is deeply human. She is sociable and devoted to others. Her mother or a mother-figure had a strong influence on her psyche, and her childhood was an important time in her life. B-Lovee still identifies with vivid childhood memories; they are the basis for her reveries, for her extreme sensitivity, and for habits which she may be slow to break. However, she will thrive in the shelter of a family setting, soothed by the presence of a spouse and children. She is fond of security and routine; being somewhat impressionable and anxious, she may have trouble adjusting to situations which are unfamiliar.

The intellect of B-Lovee is lively, agile, and sensitive. However, it does not always avail itself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although it enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, their thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. It is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste its nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, its feelings sometimes blur its objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause it to make errors in judgment.

Due to the security needs of B-Lovee, their tendency to restrict their activities, and sometimes struggle to muster the energy to face unfamiliar situations, they are more or less passive and have a strong urge to take refuge in the past.

B-Lovee’s sensitivity and emotions are sometimes in conflict with her instincts. This inner discord makes her a fairly complicated relationship partner, and her behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. She is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of her life, and her relationships are most often motivated by her desires. Nevertheless, due to her unconscious inner battle, she does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling her emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of her instincts, passion may overwhelm her and drag her into situations she cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.

B-Lovee is looking for the ideal love and tends to idealize her friends and lovers. A bizarre character, she may prefer to dream of her soulmate instead of making love to one; she is more in love with the idea of love than anything else. Her idealism may hide a fear of truly committing herself to a relationship; she tries to intellectualize everything. In time, two options will seem clear to her: an amorous friendship based on shared ideas and intellectual exchange, or an open relationship, free of all constraints except mutual respect.

B-Lovee’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. B-Lovee distrusts her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, so she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

According to the aforegoing, it appears that B-Lovee is somewhat split between the various tendencies in her character. There is a conflict between freedom and attachment, between her ambitions and her need for security, and between her natural self-focus and her altruism. As a result, her mood may be somewhat whimsical and wayward; her youth was almost certainly wayward. Once she settles down, she will develop a great love for her family, especially for her children, if she chooses to have them. She will be tolerant, easygoing, and appreciate being able to express her individuality in a long-term commitment.

B-Lovee is equally sensitive to both outer and inner beauty. She may arouse great love or she could become a muse and inspire great works of art. She could find happiness with a partner who knows how to awaken her more exalted emotions and can communicate with her on an artistic or spiritual plane.

B-Lovee may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.

You are easily drawn into intense relationships, often forming them quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners. Your sensitivity and need to merge with the other make you particularly vulnerable emotionally, and you may be met with disillusionment when your rather excessive sensitivity and need to merge with the other submerge your judgment and discernment. Before taking on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.

B-Lovee is attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons; as a scholar, she feels an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law. However, foreign languages or contacts abroad might also interest her.

B-Lovee expresses their thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. B-Lovee is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, B-Lovee looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.

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