If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Avi Angel

Although you are friendly and outgoing, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

As a result of your great ambition, you are able to work long and hard to achieve your goals. You are able to elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect yourself against any foreseeable obstacles. You are so absorbed in your business that you do not always realize that you tend to be somewhat peremptory with the people around you. You might do well to soften your tone and be more tactful at times. Your friendships seem stifling and superfluous to you, and you are sometimes tormented by inner conflict when you are forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, work to be less dogmatic. Trust in yourself and other people and flexibility.

Avi Angel is endowed with great sensitivity and has profound aspirations, especially romantic ones. Nevertheless, her spirit is sometimes too delicate for her to have armored and structured herself for the constraints of life out there in the real world. Moreover, she sees little point in devoting herself to fulfilling the demands of practical reality, which strike her as rather futile and empty. Her escapes into her fantasy world give her the illusion of a much greater reward. She tends to gloss over her vision of other people, and when they reveal their imperfections and incompetence, she feels guilty for them and suffers from her own vulnerability and illusions. She would do well to try to be more selective about the people she associates with; when she is moving in a dream world, she attracts the kind of dishonest people who are likely to take advantage of her.

At the age of 30, you may find that you need to change your direction in life. This change may occur as a result of reaching this age and having gone through a period of growth and development. This is a vital part of the process of change, in which you become consciously aware of your inner feelings and examine them. This psychological work could lead to a total reorganization of your life under the best possible conditions.