If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Averagejonas may be aware of the following weaknesses:- his pride and short temper- his insatiable need for praise- his need to dominate- his struggle to tolerate criticism.

Averagejonas tends to lure others to him and gain their love and approval. As a lover, he might be the impetuous type who rushes into a relationship without thinking, making a great show of affection at the outset. He could learn to evaluate the pros and cons of an emotional commitment more carefully if he wants to avoid leaving a trail of broken hearts.