Aventer Gray needs others in order to structure herself. She intuitively senses this need and seeks a balance between her individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return, although it sometimes eludes her. Marriage and friendship could be realms to which she is especially devoted, but they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
Aventer Gray was born with the alignment of the sun and moon. This is a sign of balance and harmony in their relationship, and it is beneficial to both Aventer Gray and everyone around them. They have a positive complementarity in their personalities, and are able to understand and work together well. This has helped Aventer Gray maintain a good relationship with family and friends. When it comes to their emotional relationships, their images of the other are very supportive and constructive. There are no negative energy flows between them, and no major conflicts are projected onto the other person.
Aventer Gray is vigorous and energetic, desiring to assert her individuality. Her attitudes and actions are actually motivated by an unconscious desire for power. She baffles those close to her, unable to understand why her behavior is so driven. She is lively, alert, and determined, but easily distracted from goals by pointless competition or opportunities to show off her power. She has a short temper and must learn to control her impulsiveness, which might lead to conflict.
Aventer Gray is very sensitive and receptive and tends to live in osmosis with her surroundings. Her individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are continually washing over her, and she often finds it difficult to communicate her feelings to other people. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but due to her lack of inner structure and organization, it is difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with other people. She is not at all combative, and this hinders her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively. Her tendency to prefer fantasy to reality and her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. She must understand that by escaping from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she free herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to the community or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.
Aventer Gray is an eloquent speaker and compulsive charmer who has a powerful personal magnetism. Sometimes, this might make him seem arrogant or smug. He cares a great deal about his reputation and will try hard to be admired and appreciated by the people around him. He is fond of social events and parties, and likes to be the host, to entertain and charm a captive audience of guests. Indeed, he has special dramatic and artistic talents of the caliber necessary for success in film, theater, fashion, or art in general. He enjoys displaying his generosity, but he also displays a short temper at times; he is easily offended. His partner will have to be a brilliant person, strong and sure of themselves, devoted to him and capable of enhancing his reputation.
Aventer Gray has a lively and curious intelligence, the very opposite of empty rhetoric and studiousness. She is agile and adaptable and can not only analyze difficult situations objectively but also demonstrate a profound comprehension when faced with a psychological problem.
Aventer Gray is fairly shy and protective of her sensitivity. She is conservative, respectful of tradition and convention, and likes to follow the rules. Because she needs stability to alleviate her feelings of frustration and sometimes emotional dependency, she has great faith in contracts which seal relationships. Her ties to her past are fairly strong. They are a source of reassurance and safety, because her parents likely gave a lot to her.
Aventer Gray is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively as soon as her sensitivity is touched. Although she feels that her independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, she is sometimes frustrated by her need to rely on her family or friends. Moreover, she does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as her own. Likewise, she is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if she feared that it would doom her to eternal dependency. Her ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship she had with her mother or a mother figure. Although she was dependent on them, they may have rejected her. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which her sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off her feelings of dependency, she sometimes tends to become destructive. Based on denial, her reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Aventer Gray has a sensitive and imaginative nature, which can sometimes lead to trouble distinguishing between dreams and reality. Although his imagination can be a source of inspiration for creative and spiritual evolution, it is less helpful and positive when it comes to matters concerning earning a living in the real world. When it comes to relationships, Aventer Gray is extremely romantic and does not always see others the way they really are. He has elegant tastes and art and beauty are one of his chief pleasures in life.
Aventer Gray is looking for the ideal love and tends to idealize her friends and lovers. A bizarre character, she may prefer to dream of her soulmate instead of making love to one; she is more in love with the idea of love than anything else. Her idealism may hide a fear of truly committing herself to a relationship; she tries to intellectualize everything. In time, two options will seem clear to her: an amorous friendship based on shared ideas and intellectual exchange, or an open relationship, free of all constraints except mutual respect.
Aventer Gray’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Aventer Gray is radiant and generous. She is attractive and pleasing. She has developed a real need to be recognized and loved. Nevertheless, she is quite likely to find happiness in a commitment to a prominent, liberal person who knows how to appreciate her qualities and thrills her with a dazzling social life.
Aventer Gray thrives on cerebral connection and would do well to seek a marriage or long-term relationship based on friendship and intellectual discussion.
Aventer Gray has the ardent, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of her main purposes in life. Her personal charm and magnetism give her nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of her well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of her desires. Due to her impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, her approach to potential partners may sometimes lack delicacy.
You are often characterized by strong sensual urges which drive you to seek pleasure. Your need for romantic fulfillment might compel you to marry, because you also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that you had indeed achieved success. However, privately, you might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, you might deny the commitments that your optimism and expansiveness made you rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting your romantic nature against the prerogatives of your career.
Aventer Gray has an ardent and amorous character, and their relationships with the other sex are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, they are often more in love with the idea of love than with their partners. As a result, their love life may be subject to some instability. They are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate them. Love is often a matter of luck with them. Even when a relationship falls apart, they do not see the experience as a failure or a tragedy; instead, they seem to learn valuable lessons from their mistakes. Psychologically, their emotion contributes positively and efficiently to their evolution. From another standpoint, their acute sensitivity predisposes them to original and subtle tastes; they are so receptive to beauty and attached to the concepts of truth and balance that they may all combine to yield remarkable creative potential.
Aventer Gray thoughtfully regarded the subject before her. She was attracted to the vast subject of philosophy and the higher studies it involved, but she also found herself drawn to the foreign languages and contacts abroad that it involved.
Aventer Gray tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
Aventer Gray has a lively and agile spirit, but he tends to apply his mental abilities in a somewhat haphazard and disorderly way. He is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of either dogmatism or prejudice. His extremely lively mind leads him to have an opinion on every subject. Although he enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses others and himself with witty remarks, his conversations could collapse into argument and conflict. Because he is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform his ideas, he is sometimes misunderstood. He is often blind to the rashness of his judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around him. Actually, his overriding need to assert himself as an individual sometimes defeats discussion and prevents him from listening to the other person fairly. But if he were to succeed in disciplining his mind somewhat, he would have innumerable opportunities to apply his communications skills to a great career. Additionally, he should be careful of his nerves, which are fairly high-strung. Any physical fitness activity would be beneficial; an Eastern discipline such as yoga or Tai-chi-chuan could teach him how to relax and improve control of his nervous and mental energies.
Aventer Gray has a great deal of intuition, but sometimes has problems organizing her thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. Concepts like boundary and structure are inimical to her mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. Her thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. She tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, she can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although her perceptions are lively and subtle, she may display a kind of absent-mindedness, out of a fear of annoying people with her shrewdness or of fighting to assert herself. Her imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.
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