Arlyn Phoenix is trying to overcome her feelings of insecurity. To do so, she needs a home: a dwelling, a territory, or perhaps a safe space or setting where she can rest, and let down her systems of defense against the outer world, which she finds aggressive and hostile. She is ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure she has chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of herself, her abilities, and her shortcomings, her strengths and her weaknesses would no doubt be most effective and would allow her to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.
You have a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding your identity. Perhaps your father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during your childhood, which deprived you of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because you might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
Arlyn Phoenix was born to a family of prestigious academics. She was raised strictly and went through rapid physical and emotional growth due to the extremely strict standards her father set for her. As a result of this upbringing, Arlyn has a strong sense of self-reliance and is uncompromising in her pursuit of success. However, despite her successes, she often feels insecure and unfulfilled. This is likely due to her father’s heavy influence on her personality, which led her to compensate for her lack of self-confidence with determination. As a result, she is skilled, meticulous, and conscientious, but often timid and hesitant. She is also aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile, and she is patient and persistent in her pursuit of success.
You are an individualist and free thinker who has rejected the conventional values of your social class. You have adopted an innovative lifestyle, based on your own convictions. Your passionate convictions can sometimes conflict with your relationships, as you are uncompromising in your desire for independence. You may benefit from learning to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you do not learn to do this, you are likely to find yourself constantly embroiled in conflicts. The roots of your behavior may lie in your relationship with your father or teachers in childhood and adolescence. You may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way that you now refuse to adopt conventional values. In every important life decision, you must rely on yourself to develop the appropriate behavior and impose limits on your desires.
Arlyn Phoenix is a very sensitive person who is easily absorbed into her surroundings. Her individuality is almost lost in the flood of sensations and impressions she experiences constantly. Sometimes it’s difficult for her to communicate her feelings to other people, as her tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition. However, her fluid inner structure and organization can make it difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with other people. Arlyn is not at all combative, and this often hinders her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively. She is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. Arlyn must understand that by running away from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she frees herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to some sort of social work or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.
You have an inalienable awareness of the void and the vanity of existence. You are sometimes disoriented and deconstructed by an unknowable, unconscious force and tend to ignore or disparage the superficial pleasures and pains of daily life, preferring to dive into the depths of human experience as deeply as your intellectual, emotional, and spiritual capacities permit. Grappling with your “fundamental nature,” with the deepest and most primitive part of yourself, you are sometimes aghast at the discovery of the sheer power of your instincts and feels an imperious need to cope with them. This special consciousness you have been endowed with is somewhat beyond the bounds of conventional schools of human understanding and thought and may be a source of identity problems for you at the outset. It is not easy for you to recognize yourself in any social or narcissistic models, or identify with any existing roles or attitudes, so you sometimes find yourself forced to assert and express your own identity in a way which may strike your contemporaries as strangely intense if not eccentric.
An eloquent speaker and compulsive charmer, Arlyn Phoenix has a powerful personal magnetism which may sometimes make her seem arrogant or smug. She cares a great deal about her reputation and will try hard to be admired and appreciated by the people around her. Fond of social events and parties, Arlyn Phoenix likes to be the host, to entertain and charm a captive audience of guests. Indeed, she has special dramatic and artistic talents of the caliber necessary for success in film, theater, fashion, or art in general. She enjoys displaying her generosity, but she also displays a short temper at times; she is easily offended. Her partner will have to be a brilliant person, strong and sure of themselves, devoted to her and capable of enhancing her reputation.
Arlyn Phoenix has a very imaginative mind which can sometimes cause problems when it comes to distinguishing dreams from reality. Although her imagination can be a source of inspiration for creative and spiritual evolution, it can also be less helpful and positive when it comes to matters that concern earning a living in the real world. In a relationship, Arlyn is very romantic and often sees others in a way that is different from how they actually are. She has elegant tastes and art and beauty are one of her chief pleasures in life.
Arlyn Phoenix is a person who is very interested in sexuality and their relationships. They find that their instincts often dictate their decisions when it comes to their love lives, and they often find themselves being a very demanding partner. They often feel a great deal of guilt over their need for sexual fulfillment, and this often causes them to re-evaluate their relationships.
Arlyn Phoenix is looking for the ideal love and tends to idealize her friends and lovers. A bizarre character, she may prefer to dream of her soulmate instead of making love to one; she is more in love with the idea of love than anything else. Her idealism may hide a fear of truly committing herself to a relationship; she tries to intellectualize everything. In time, two options will seem clear to her: an amorous friendship based on shared ideas and intellectual exchange, or an open relationship, free of all constraints except mutual respect.
Arlyn Phoenix’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Arlyn Phoenix feels indispensable and dominant in social situations. She values social prestige, and will choose a partner based on their career as well as their family’s success. Her home may be tense due to her ambition, but she may compensate by being very close to her partner.
Arlyn Phoenix is very sincere, and she loves wholeheartedly. Loving friendships will play a major role in her destiny. She is independent-minded and will be happier in an open relationship than in a marriage, unless this is based on great mutual freedom. However, she is likely to marry too young or on an impulse. A second relationship with a person she admires for their generous and free-thinking nature will bring her greater happiness.
Arlyn Phoenix has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of her main purposes in life. Her personal charm and magnetism give her nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of her well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of her desires. Due to her impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, her approach to potential partners may sometimes lack delicacy.
Arlyn Phoenix is attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons; as a scholar, she feels an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law. However, foreign languages or contacts abroad might also interest her.
Arlyn Phoenix expresses her thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. She is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, she looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.
Arlyn Phoenix is a person with a kind and benevolent personality. They are able to charm others and are able to speak persuasively and convincingly. This makes them a great advantage when it comes to social interactions, but when it comes to situations where they must compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, Arlyn Phoenix may be somewhat at a loss. Arlyn Phoenix has a gift for oratory, which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which Arlyn Phoenix excels.
Arlyn Phoenix has a lively and agile spirit. She is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences without either dogmatism or prejudice. As a result of the liveliness of her mind, she tends to have an opinion on every subject, but she does not always have the patience or perspective necessary to examine a subject and gain in-depth knowledge of it. She enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses herself with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If she learned to control her flow of words better and elaborate her thoughts more, she might make a talented communicator. Because she is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform her ideas, she is sometimes misunderstood. She is often blind to the rashness of her judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around her. If she were to succeed in disciplining her mind somewhat, she would have innumerable opportunities to apply her communications skills to a great career. However, she would do well to be careful of her nerves.
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