If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Arieta Apa knows that you have these weaknesses and she is here to help you overcome them.

You often feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and often struggle to reconcile their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels like you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Arieta Apa may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Arieta Apa has a variety of talents, but it can be hard for her to focus on one area of interest. She’s easily influenced by her nerves and tends to be indecisive, which can make it difficult for her to use her adaptive abilities to their fullest potential. If she doesn’t learn to control her jittery mind, she’ll quickly run out of energy and be unable to get anything done. If she has respiratory problems, like asthma, it means she needs to change her behavior urgently.

Arieta Apa’s energy is vast and very productive. She knows how to persevere and meet challenges, delays, and obstacles with determination and obstinacy, without altering her goals. She is fairly reluctant to change course as a result of outside intervention, preferring to bulldoze her way past any obstacles, slowly but steadily, rather than go around them. Sometimes her will is so powerful that she refuses to make any compromises or concessions, which may be a source of conflict with others. She might want to work on sharing her power or authority, which would allow her to accomplish more.

Arieta Apa hates contradictions. Although she has a lot of mental and intellectual concentration, she sometimes tends to be dogmatic or absolutist. Her rigid mindset denotes a certain adaptive difficulty.

Arieta Apa has fairly single-minded and obstinate desires. She displays a remarkable persistence in the pursuit of her commitments, despite any obstacles she may encounter. She is highly charged with sensuality and sexuality, and they have a great deal of influence on her behavior. Her expression in this area is sometimes fraught with problems because she has a tendency to try too hard to control her lustful urges. However, an emotional crisis intervening at around age 40 may bring about a total redefinition of her relationship to her sexuality.

Arieta Apa is fairly organized. She is able to work long and hard to achieve her goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect herself against any foreseeable obstacles. She is so absorbed in her business that she does not always realize that she tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around her and that she might do well to soften her tone and be more tactful at times. Her friendships seem stifling and superfluous to her, and she is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when she is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, work to be less dogmatic. Trust in yourself and other people and flexibility.