If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your growth:- your overweening ego- your need to show off- your aggressiveness- your excesses

Aries Spears sometimes feels a conflict between wanting to be successful in both social and professional circles, and needing a stable and secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes doesn’t always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier for her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Aries Spears, because of your tendency to be self-focused at times, may encounter conflict in relationships. Your certainty that you are bound to succeed, combined with impulsiveness, make you want to take charge of everything. This aggressiveness and lack of cooperation couldrouse resentment in others. You would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.

Aries Spears can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although she frequently changes her opinion and doesn’t hold a grudge. She abhor conflict and is a good listener. Her key to self-improvement will be learning to control her impressionability.

Aries Spears obeys a drive to live and accomplish his purpose in an intense and immediate way. Whenever he encounters direct resistance, he might find himself beset by frustration. If the resistance lasts, he may eventually be overwhelmed by anxiety, nervous tension, and discouragement. In addition, he has the ability to focus his strength and leadership potential on problems which require immediate solutions. His lack of patience and persistence may spur problems.

Aries Spears has a fairly individualistic temperament and is something of a loner. She is reluctant to commit herself to partnership. Her tendency to want to be the sole authority may put a painful crimp in relationships. When she is confronted directly, her reactions may be rather extreme. However, in crisis situations which require immediate and decisive action, she comes to the forefront, with her ability to mobilize all her energy quickly and effectively.