If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might be your overweening ego, your need to show off, your aggressiveness, or your excesses.

Ari Lennox may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Ari Lennox tends to be rigid in relationships. In some extreme cases, she may be jealous. Because she has a great deal of emotional impact on the other, she sometimes feels invulnerable to any outside influence and will struggle with reexamining her own attitude.