Andre Aciman seeks others in order to structure himself. Intuitively sensing this need, he seeks a balance between his individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return. Although it sometimes eludes him, marriage and friendship could be realms to which he is especially devoted. But they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
You are a free thinker who has thrown off convention and adopted a unique lifestyle. Your passionate convictions sometimes trouble your relationships, as you may be an uncompromising partner. You would do well to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you do not accept these responsibilities, you are likely to find yourself embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your behavior may lie in your relationship with your father or your teachers when you were child or adolescent. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way as you now refuse to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important life decision you make as an adult, you rely on yourself to elaborate the appropriate behavior, and the limits you must impose on your desires in relation to reality and the law.
You are a very sensitive person who is easily overwhelmed by your surroundings. You often find it difficult to communicate your feelings to other people, as your inner flood of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition. Your fluid inner structure and organization can make it difficult for you to grasp the essence of your dreams and share them with other people, but you are not at all combative. This tendency to prefer fantasy to reality can be a psychological trap, but you must understand that by running away from your obligations and commitments, you only increase the feelings of guilt which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once you free yourself from this pernicious process, you have a great deal of potential for fulfilling yourself in the outer world, either by devoting yourself to some sort of social work or by cultivating your considerable artistic talents.
Andre Aciman is extremely sociable. He is instinctively in tune with others and is tactful and diplomatic. He also has a need to be accepted and respected and is sensitive and discerning. As a result, he is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. He cares about relationships (the couple, or a partnership) and they take a central role in his life.
Andre Aciman maintains strong ties with his past, and it often seems difficult for him to open his heart to new people. His love affairs might exist on the surface level, because his lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for him to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.
Due to your extreme sensitivity and irrepressible imagination, you sometimes have trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although your bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern your self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient. Although your psychic faculties drive you to fulfill yourself through artistic activities like painting, drawing, music, or poetry, it may be difficult for you to market your talents in terms of a career. In a relationship, you are extremely romantic and do not always see others the way they really are. Because of your tendency to idealize people, you may be disappointed when their true natures are eventually betrayed.
Andre Aciman is sometimes afraid to love. The world of his feelings is characterized by a certain chill and restraint. But he is not unfeeling; on the contrary, his sensitivity is so delicate that he is careful to protect it. His determination to maintain control of his feelings and force his emotions to obey the laws of reason may stand in the way of intimacy and joy.
Andre Aciman’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, he tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Andre Aciman is a charming individual. Although he is somewhat reserved, he is quite charming. He is a big softie who suffers bitterly when unloved. Full of unconscious contradictions, he is attracted to those he believes are virile and who turn out to be weak, who appeared tender but reveal themselves to be stoic. He then tries to shield his sensitivity with aloofness, though he loathes solitude. He will be happier as he ages.
Andre Aciman is a romantic at heart. He dreams of an extraordinary person who will carry him off, far from home and who, most of all, will cure his latent emotional depression. But real life is more mundane, and he may end up with an uninspiring partner who can offer neither security nor excitement. In the end, friendships could prove more rewarding.
You have a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. You are emotive and hypersensitive, making you especially vulnerable emotionally, since you are sometimes overwhelmed by your feelings and affects. Although you seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your rather excessive sensitivity and your need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love, for you may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.
Andre Aciman considers the input from his subjectivity and emotions as static which he tries to tune out to go straight to the essence of knowledge. As a result, regardless of his field of study, he tries to obtain perspective. He will elaborate a thought on the basis of fairly cold, abstract logic, supported by sober, concise, and immaculate reasoning. His choice areas of study could be mathematics, philosophy, legislation, or political science. Ideologies, theories, and any other system of reasoning could serve as “food for thought” for him.
Andre Aciman thinks carefully before he expresses his thoughts or ideas. He is introverted and looks to his own experiences to find solutions to the problems he encounters in life. Because he is mistrustful of conventional thought patterns, his opinion is often very personal.
Andre Aciman has an inward turn of mind, and finds communicating with others difficult for purely pleasure reasons. He often finds himself misunderstood, and struggles to express the depth of his thoughts.
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