If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of your weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might be your excessive independence, your fear of commitment, your eccentricity, your instability, or your fear of intimacy.

Alejandra Guzmán sometimes has a conflict between her desire for social and professional success, and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes struggles to reconcile their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Alejandra Guzmán has the ability to detach herself from her emotions to analyze and observe them, which sometimes prevents her from truly engaging herself in emotional terms. This is the reason why she subjects all her feelings to an intellectual interpretation rather than yielding to them. It is also the reason why she might falter, hesitate, contradict herself and seem to say both yes and no when she has an opportunity to commit herself emotionally. Alejandra Guzmán should make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious conditioning which may be related to her childhood. She must first learn to observe and assimilate other people’s feelings instead of rejecting them. This exercise will teach her to understand her own reactions and affects better.