If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your coolness and distance, your lack of consideration for others, your rigidity, your need for total control, or your fear of your emotions.

Aaron Blabey may experience discord in relationships. Although he is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, he often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, he should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If he succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship he and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Aaron Blabey, because of your tendency to be self-focused at times, may encounter conflict in relationships. Your certainty that you are bound to succeed, combined with impulsiveness, make you want to take charge of everything. This aggressiveness and lack of cooperation could arouse resentment in others. You would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.

Aaron Blabey can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although he frequently changes his opinion and doesn’t hold a grudge. He abhors conflict and is a good listener. His key to self-improvement will be learning to control his impressionability.

Aaron Blabey has a quick mental process, and because of this, he jumps to conclusions and makes decisions quickly. This can lead to problems in communications and opposition from others, as his mind is usually focused on the present. On the other hand, this quick thinking can be very helpful in quickly responding to changing situations, as he can make decisions quickly and without thorough consideration.