If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your coolness and distance, your lack of consideration for others, your rigidity, your need for total control, or your fear of your emotions.
Aaron Blabey has a difficult time with discord in relationships. Although he is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, he often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, he should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If he succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what kind of intimate relationship he and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
Aaron Blabey sometimes senses a conflict between his desire for social and professional success and his need for a stable, secure domestic life. He is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on him. Sometimes it feels as though he will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy him if he has neglected his most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to him to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if he merely sacrifices his domestic life, he is only trying to fool himself. He should accept the fact that his domestic life is the true basis and foundation of his development. All his career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.
Aaron has a tendency to be self-focused at times, which can lead to conflict in relationships. His certainty that he is bound to succeed, combined with impulsiveness, make him want to take charge of everything. This aggressiveness and lack of cooperation could arouse resentment in others. He would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.
Aaron can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although he frequently changes his opinion and doesn't hold a grudge. He abhor conflict and is a good listener. His key to self-improvement will be learning to control his impressionability.
Aaron Blabey has a quick mental process. As a result, he tend to jump to conclusions and make immediate decisions before he know all the facts. This rash and impetuous behavior could cause communications problems and arouse needless opposition in others. His mind is generally too busy with the immediate future to take time for careful analysis and reflection. However, the same behavior has a positive side. It can be of great use to him in rushed or quickly changing work situations, which require last-minute, immediate decisions.