What does 1nonly’s psychology tell us about them?

1nonly is trying to overcome its feelings of insecurity. To do so, it needs a home: a dwelling, a territory, or perhaps a safe space or setting where it can rest, and let down its systems of defense against the outer world, which it finds aggressive and hostile. It is ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure it has chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of itself, its abilities, and its shortcomings, its strengths and its weaknesses would no doubt be most effective and would allow it to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.

1nonly has a profound and fertile inner life and a prolific imagination, but her energy resources are not always sufficient to follow through on and accomplish her multitude of dreams. She tends to live in osmosis with her environment, and effort and action take a heavy toll on her. Usually, she understands phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort; so she is not in the habit of disciplining or shaping her thought processes. Like her thoughts, her personality is rather amorphous and disorganized. As a result of this lack of structure, she may have some trouble asserting her individuality and making some personal contribution to society through her career. Her tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams, like her refusal of responsibility and duty, may be a source of some difficulty for her.

Only 1nonly is generally motivated by activities which apply to social needs. 1nonly tends to give the best of herself in difficult situations which require crucial choices. Her ability to concentrate and her gift for solving problems by deductive reasoning are her chief resources in crisis situations or at turning points in her life.

1nonly is winning and attractive. 1nonly has an appetite for intense emotional experiences, especially in terms of 1nonly’s relationships. Enjoying the power of 1nonly’s personal appeal, 1nonly easily controls 1nonly’s emotions and only rarely reveals the true depth of 1nonly’s feelings. Because 1nonly’s instincts take precedence over 1nonly’s sensitivity, 1nonly is capable of becoming jealous, possessive, and even rather harsh, without meaning to. More of a flirt than a voluptuary, 1nonly is attentive to desire. As a result, 1nonly’s love life will sometimes be casual and complicated.

The intellect of 1nonly is lively, agile, and sensitive. However, 1nonly does not always avail itself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although 1nonly enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, 1nonly’s thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. 1nonly is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste 1nonly’s nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, 1nonly’s feelings sometimes blur 1nonly’s objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause 1nonly to make errors in judgment.

1nonly maintains strong ties with their past, and it often seems difficult for them to open their heart to new people. Their love affairs might exist on the surface level, because their lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for them to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.

Only 1nonly hides behind a cool exterior. She is conservative, respectful of tradition and convention, and likes to follow the rules. She needs stability to alleviate her feelings of frustration and sometimes emotional dependency, so she has great faith in contracts which seal relationships. Her ties to her past are fairly strong. They are a source of reassurance and safety, because her parents likely gave her a lot.

1nonly is an individual who quickly develops an original and independent identity, and is able to forge strong, original relationships without conflict. They are an inspired and lively person with a brisk interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. They would be especially successful in communications-related careers, such as journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although 1nonly is an individualist, they have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and better its development.

Only 1nonly enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of her expression. She is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of her affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. She may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.

The birth chart indicates that 1nonly has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. 1nonly distrusts her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, trying to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

1nonly may find it difficult to be comfortable with themselves. Their aggressiveness is an obstacle to their relationships, especially with romantic interests, causing clashes and conflicts almost against their will. Their instincts predominate over their mind and their senses supersede or distort their feelings, so their relationships are usually abrupt. They really need to find an activity which could channel their enormous potential.

Only 1nonly can be interested in verbal or social exchanges over actual lovemaking. Due to their intellectual temperament, 1nonly enjoys flirting and has fun with love. They avoid intense passion, leading to them fluttering from one good-looking face to the next. They believe that by playing this way, the game of love can have few serious consequences.

1nonly has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of 1nonly’s main purposes in life. 1nonly’s personal charm and magnetism give 1nonly nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of 1nonly’s well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of 1nonly’s desires. Due to 1nonly’s impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, 1nonly’s approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.

1nonly has an ardent and amorous character, and her relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, she is often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, her love life may be subject to some instability. She is generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate her. Her greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although she merges her ego entirely into the couple, she is likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If her partner charms and captivates her long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with her; otherwise, she is likely to yield to her need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for her.

Midlife may be a turning point for her from this point of view. Her contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Her behavior enables her to remain aloof, to commit herself only halfway without consciously admitting it to herself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when she loses interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps her from forming stable relationships. Indeed, she is tormented by the struggle between her undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, her romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by her conviction that her partner has become an obstacle to her individual progress. Because she thinks of love as a restraint, she may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, she will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, she is also likely to meet “the one” who inspires her to initiate a change in her behavior.

1nonly is somewhat plodding but realistic and pragmatic. Because 1nonly is chiefly preoccupied with the practical aspects of things, 1nonly is especially apt to develop more efficient production concepts. Although 1nonly’s good judgment and common sense provide 1nonly with an excellent ability to handle the tangible world (1nonly is certainly clever, and can quickly assess the tangible value of things), 1nonly’s thought processes might be relatively impervious to abstract concepts and spiritual awakenings.

1nonly does not express its thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. It tends to be subjective, seeking to know itself better through a process of introversion.

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