Does this powerhouse embody the highest human spirit?
“Queen of All Media” Oprah Winfrey embodies many Aquarian paradoxes. She’s both outgoing and reserved, public and private. Like others of her sign she questions everything and stops at nothing to find the answer.
She’s enjoyed great success amid turmoil and tragedy, yet Oprah joyfully anticipates the future. “The way I see it, every year can be a new journey….you get one chance to be 25…38…61….why wouldn’t you want to experience all the wonder in each step in your path?” Forward-thinking Aquarians are often so focused on what could be that they forget to appreciate what is. Learn to love the person you are right now. One lesson Oprah’s friend, the ever-admirable Maya Angelou, taught her, “You are enough!” There’s no time like the present.
Expect great things to come from this talented Aquarian…
Everyone knows Amber Riley can sing. You only must see her as Mercedes on Glee to know that! The diva with the powerful pipes then proved she could dance, too. Thanks to her lively quickstep, Amber and her partner Derek Hough won the coveted mirror-ball trophy in season 17 of Dancing with the Stars. It was a tough climb to the top, but the singer refused to take rejection for an answer. Failing to win a spot on American Idol only fueled her determination. “Being told no just made me work harder!” Amber proves that Aquarians employ their strongest asset in everything they do, “I want to let women of all sizes know that you can do whatever, whatever, whatever you put your mind to.”
Nothing will stop this determined Aquarian!
Rose Leslie, who played the strong-willed, independent “wildling” Ygritte, on HBO’s Game of Thrones, is no stranger to the world of castles and royalty. She grew up in 15th century Lickleyhead Castle, near Aberdeen, Scotland, the family’s home for half a millennium. After studying at the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Art, she won roles on TV and at London’s Globe Theatre.
In the first series of ITV’s acclaimed Downton Abbey, Rose traded her upstairs upbringing for a downstairs role as housemaid Gwen. Perhaps her Aquarian independence and strength help Rose choose her roles! As Gwen, determined to leave Downton for a better life, she’s “breaking every rule.” And just like Ygritte, Rose knows exactly what she wants and how to get it!
Ways you could be sabotaging Aquarius’ love life…
If you truly want to be in a long-term relationship, focus that famed intellect on yourself. Do any of these sound familiar?
Too acid-tongued. That sharp wit can cut if you aren’t careful.
Too cerebral. Don’t overthink things.
Too contrary.Would you rather throw a hissy fit than conform?
Too emotionally distant. Display some of that love you feel.
Too independent. “Freedom” can look like rejection to a partner.
Too objective. Sometimes you need to take a side and voice an opinion!
Too stubborn. Everyone has to give up a cherished idea occasionally.
Too unpredictable. A partner likes some continuity.
A key way to prepare for your future NOW…
Robots, self-driving cars, drones that deliver, you love it all. There’s nothing artificial about your intelligence! You not only lean into the future, you want it to be here right now. Like fellow Aquarians Faith Popcorn and Ray Kurzweil, you can see trends so far ahead that other people think you’re crazy (until they happen). You’re as likely to be enthralled with science fiction as science fact. Meld these interests with your humanitarian streak in a job in futurology (yes, it’s a field), and find novel solutions to real global problems. Join the Long Now Foundation and get started!
Are Aquarian expectations too high or too low?
All you want out of life is lots of interesting, smart friends, a wonderful partner, meaningful work, everyone to be happy, and the world to be a better place! That would seem like a fool’s dream if you weren’t so dedicated to making it all come true.
You may think that other people aren’t as capable as you, that they don’t measure up to your (extremely high) standards. Look past the flaws (they’re doing the same for you) and see their strengths. Focus on what they have to offer. Learn from the mistakes of others—you don’t have time to make them all yourself!
Be careful not to appear this way to others…
Does it get lonely up there on that hill, Aquarius, as king or queen of all you survey? That’s the impression you can give if you aren’t careful! At worst, you seem to act like royalty, only taking your own needs into account and expecting others to meet them. But that’s just because you’re wary of emotions. You much prefer to deal with life rationally!
However, make no mistake—Aquarius is tender and romantic, with an abundance of love to give to the right person. And that person isn’t looking for a quick romp in the hay! Will that person see the warm, vibrant side of Aquarius? Only time will tell!
Are you settling?
Youdon’t follow the beaten path in the rest of your life, so why do it at work? There’s a niche for your unique talents, perhaps in one of these fields.
Teacher, advisor, arbitrator, lawyer: You’re nonjudgmental, logical, and you like to help people.
Computer sciences, engineering: You love technology, the newer the better.
Indie filmmaker: You like people to follow your “script” and play the roles that you’ve assigned to them!
Private investigator, researcher: You collect facts like others collect stamps.
Avant-garde artist: Follow in the footsteps of fellow Aquarians Philip Glass, Yoko Ono, Jackson Pollock, Gertrude Stein, and Federico Fellini!
Things Water Bearers just can’t tolerate…
There are some qualities that an Aquarius just won’t tolerate in a love interest! Don’t be…
Bossy. But Aquarius has no problem telling <i>you</i> the best way to do something!
Clingy. Be independent and pursue your own interests.
Drama queen. Your tantrums will be studied like a science experiment.
Intolerant. Live and let live.
A nag. Make your point subtly.
Nosy. Don’t poke around in the Water Bearer’s private business.
Pouty. If you sit in wounded silence, Aquarius will never know you’re unhappy.
Untruthful. Aquarius is upfront and so should you be, too.
A wet blanket. Be ready to try new things, day or night!
Qualities that will seal the deal in Aquarian romance…
If you think you’re going to impress an Aquarius with your Ivy League degree or Revolutionary War-era pedigree, think again. Such things matter not a bit to this sign. The Water Bearer favors that whip-smart hottie who plays slightly hard to get, or the well-read one with the ironic sense of humor. Oh, and you’re on the right track if you have a childlike sense of fun, a “ready for anything” attitude, and a sartorial style that’s impossible to classify (or copy). Easygoing? Check. Bold? Check. Intellectual rapport? Ding, ding, ding! Folks, we have a winner!