Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:

TheOdd1sOut is determined to obtain a superlative grip on their emotional urges; they practice holding back their impulses and controlling them. Although it is not an easy apprenticeship, they want to be able to bear strain with patience, endurance, and stamina. More than anyone else, they are aware of the need for a solid and stable foundation as a prerequisite to any effective action.

TheOdd1sOut has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for TheOdd1sOut to gain access to this part of TheOdd1sOutself. TheOdd1sOut is confident in TheOdd1sOutself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. TheOdd1sOut sometimes need a little stimulation to get TheOdd1sOutself rolling and take some initiative. TheOdd1sOut optimism and inner certainty do not always drive TheOdd1sOut to give TheOdd1sOut utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills TheOdd1sOut possess are an advantage as well as a handicap. TheOdd1sOut make use of TheOdd1sOut theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for TheOdd1sOut would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.

TheOdd1sOut has a profound and fertile inner life and a prolific imagination, but their energy resources are not always sufficient to follow through on and accomplish their multitude of dreams. They tend to live in osmosis with their environment, and effort and action take a heavy toll on them. Usually, they understand phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort; so they are not in the habit of disciplining or shaping their thought processes. Like their thoughts, their personality is rather amorphous and disorganized. As a result of this lack of structure, they may have some trouble asserting their individuality and making some personal contribution to society through their career. Their tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams, like their refusal of responsibility and duty, may be a source of some difficulty for them.

Adaptation and Sensitivity:

Lively and expressive, TheOdd1sOut has a personality which is sometimes agitated but straightforward. Unconscious feelings of insecurity compel TheOdd1sOut to act and sometimes to seek the admiration of others. As a result, TheOdd1sOut is unable to bear idleness and routine, and TheOdd1sOut is in search of perpetual excitement. TheOdd1sOut’s reactions to others are highly individual and depend on the mood TheOdd1sOut is in at any given moment. A person of decision, a businessperson or an athlete, TheOdd1sOut often personifies boldness and impetuosity. TheOdd1sOut’s love life is liable to be fiery, as it obeys the imperatives of TheOdd1sOut’s desire for freedom and independence, and TheOdd1sOut’s need for change.

TheOdd1sOut has a sensitive and affectionate nature. They seek tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Their relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and they have a natural sense of tact and social grace.

TheOdd1sOut is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively as soon as their sensitivity is touched. Although TheOdd1sOut feel that their independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, TheOdd1sOut are sometimes frustrated by their need to rely on their family or friends. Moreover, TheOdd1sOut do not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as their own. Likewise, TheOdd1sOut are sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if TheOdd1sOut feared that it would doom TheOdd1sOut to eternal dependency. TheOdd1sOut’s ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship TheOdd1sOut had with TheOdd1sOut’s mother or a mother figure. Although TheOdd1sOut were dependent on them, they may have rejected TheOdd1sOut. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which TheOdd1sOut’s sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off TheOdd1sOut’s feelings of dependency, TheOdd1sOut sometimes tend to become destructive. Based on denial, TheOdd1sOut’s reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.

Due to TheOdd1sOut’s sensitivity and irrepressible imagination, they sometimes have trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although TheOdd1sOut’s bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern TheOdd1sOut’s self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient. In a relationship, TheOdd1sOut is extremely romantic and does not always see others the way they really are.

Love and Sensuality:

TheOdd1sOut enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of their expression. They are a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of their affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. They may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.

TheOdd1sOut’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of TheOdd1sOut’s emotional urges and somewhat wary of TheOdd1sOut’s feelings, TheOdd1sOut tries to rid themselves of all partiality and tries to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

TheOdd1sOut’s love of life, gaiety, and aura of sensuality make them very attractive. They have simple tastes which may border on the rustic. They are likely to rush into marriage on a wild impulse. But they will settle down successfully. A lover of good cooking and certainly a skilled cook themselves, they are an expert at making their world happy and comfortable.

TheOdd1sOut has a certain innocent charm. Without making any special efforts, TheOdd1sOut is often solicited and has a number of pleasurable little romances. Fortunately, TheOdd1sOut is fairly tolerant, because TheOdd1sOut tends to be attracted to young people who may not be especially loyal or serious. It is better that TheOdd1sOut not rely on them.

TheOdd1sOut has a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. They are emotive and hypersensitive, making them especially vulnerable emotionally, since they are sometimes overwhelmed by their feelings and affects. Although they seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom they could maintain blissful, smooth relations, they are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because their rather excessive sensitivity and their need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge their judgment and discernment, so they sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When they meet someone, they fall under the enchantment of their dream of ideal love and cannot keep themselves from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, they yield to another of their characteristic urges and lose themselves in the individual who is so dear to them, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find themselves as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, their psyche is constructed in such a way as to make their sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before they take on any major commitments, they should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates their intense love, for they may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Their tendency to believe in their illusions may mark them as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for them to find a different object for their affections, or a form of sublimation, because they tend to be so disappointed by their great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of their imagination procure artistic refinement for them, and they love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because their sensitivity also makes it easy for them to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties their peers are struggling with, they might also find it rewarding to commit themselves to social work.

Mental and Intellect:

TheOdd1sOut is somewhat plodding but realistic and pragmatic. Because TheOdd1sOut is chiefly preoccupied with the practical aspects of things, TheOdd1sOut is especially apt to develop more efficient production concepts. Although TheOdd1sOut’s good judgment and common sense provide TheOdd1sOut with an excellent ability to handle the tangible world (TheOdd1sOut is certainly clever, and can quickly assess the tangible value of things), TheOdd1sOut’s thought processes might be relatively impervious to abstract concepts and spiritual awakenings.

TheOdd1sOut does not express their thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. They tend to be subjective, seeking to know TheOdd1sOut better through a process of introversion.

TheOdd1sOut’s intellectual faculties and wit are sometimes slowed down because they are turned inward. Because TheOdd1sOut tend to be oriented toward themselves, TheOdd1sOut rarely try to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, TheOdd1sOut sometimes feel misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult to TheOdd1sOut to express the complexity of their inner perceptions.