What does Stefan Lessard’s psychology tell us about them?

Stefan Lessard was trying to overcome his feelings of insecurity. To do so, he needed a home: a dwelling, a territory, or perhaps a safe space or setting where he could rest, and let down his systems of defense against the outer world, which he found aggressive and hostile. He was ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure he had chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of himself, his abilities, and his shortcomings, his strengths and his weaknesses would no doubt be most effective and would allow him to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.

Stefan Lessard’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling his psyche. Because his sensitivity is in conflict with his determination, his attitude and performance may sometimes be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, he has the feeling he has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging his yearnings and fulfilling his ambitions. His unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of his conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage his plans. In his relationships, the images he builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, might also annoy him. He could find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.

Stefan Lessard has a taste for luxury and magnificence, for a dazzling social life and a distinguished career. When things are going well for him, he tends to think of himself as the center of the universe, an attitude that those close to him do not always appreciate. Although he is quite likely to succeed in his ambition to become wealthy and popular and lead a remarkable life in the outer world, his lack of moderation and overweening self-confidence expose him to some danger. His exaggerated optimism could create difficulties for him by causing him to make errors in judgment.

You are a very sensitive person who is easily influenced by your surroundings. Your individuality seems to be diluted by a flood of sensations and impressions which wash over you, and it can sometimes be difficult to communicate your feelings to other people or engage in any structured, analytical thought. This may be because when you were a child, your teachers did not understand your need for discipline and authority, and so you withdrew into yourself. This allowed you to create a rich inner life that they could not invade, and you cut many of your ties to the outside world. Because you enjoyed indulging in your inner life, it can be difficult for you to acquire an objective vision of reality. As a result, you may often create imaginary problems for yourself, even when the objective facts are the same. Although your imagination is a source of inspiration and intuition, your fluid inner structure and organization can sometimes make it difficult for you to grasp the essence of your dreams and share them with other people. You are not at all combative, and this often hinders your efforts to fit into society and assert yourself productively. You are more likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but your refusal to abandon your unattainable dreams is a psychological trap that you have fallen into without realizing it. You must understand that by running away from your obligations and commitments, you only increase the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once you free yourself from this pernicious process, you have a great deal of potential for fulfilling yourself in the outer world, either by devoting yourself to some sort of social work or by cultivating your considerable artistic talents.

Stefan Lessard enjoys physical and mental freedom. His youth and home may have been of the rootless, wandering type, which could have given him a taste for movement and independence. He needs to be aware that his life has a purpose and hunt for it in various belief systems, both traditional and new age. In fact, Stefan Lessard has an unmistakable gift for philosophy. The faraway appeals to him, and travel is likely to be an important aspect of his life.

Stefan Lessard is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find him generous almost to a fault! He gives of himself and his resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when Stefan Lessard is self-focused. He reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and is prone to misjudge. As a result, his everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, he senses a conflict between his social life and his family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill himself in both spheres at the same time. His attitude toward his private life may inhibit his ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on his private life. He should be careful not to project his personal problems onto his partner. If, instead, he analyzes the problem together, he could find opportunities to resolve it together.

Although your sensitive and imaginative nature often leads you to mistake dreams for reality, it can also be a source of creativity and spiritual growth. However, your psychic abilities can also be a hinderance when it comes to finding a career or establishing a relationship. You are extremely romantic and tend to see the best in people, which can result in your being disappointed when their true nature is revealed.

Stefan Lessard has a sensual and affectionate nature which is sensitive to physical attraction. This type of sensitivity, combined with his productive urges, may be expressed in an artistic form. As for his feelings, they are usually slow to take root. But once he is conquered by love, he forms a deep and lasting bond. Although he is loyal, he may also display a tendency to be somewhat possessive.

Stefan Lessard’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, Stefan is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

Stefan Lessard is an unstable and impressionable person. He is constantly uncertain about his feelings and nothing ever seems to meet with his high emotional aspirations. When he thinks he has finally found his ideal match, usually it is because his aspirations have changed. As a result, Stefan Lessard is likely to have several commitments or marriages.

Because Stefan Lessard is so easily aroused by beauty and perfection, he is always seeking sensual thrills. He could easily thrive on a life of total pleasure, neglecting more serious work. But his marriage will introduce some stability; his spouse will bring warmth and (perhaps) some material assets into his home. His children, if he chooses to have them, will quickly become extremely important to him; they may have a tendency to be able to make him do whatever they please.

You are cautious and reserved, sometimes unwilling to open yourself to others if you are not sure of being accepted. You will always hang back somewhat from your emotional urges, parceling out your expressions of affection, because you have learned – sometimes at your expense – that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For you, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when you are in love, you remain fairly circumspect. When you find yourself attracted to a partner, you privately engage in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether you are likely to be able to share your life and future with them. As a result of your sensitivity, you have a profound affinity for all the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich your existence and make it pleasant. You could progress in any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate.

You are a complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.

Stefan Lessard’s intellect is simultaneously subjective and sensitive, acute and intuitive, always practical and deeply rooted in human experience. His memory and imagination combined with his shrewdness would make him a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.

Stefan Lessard tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.

Stefan Lessard has a great ability to charm people and make them believe what he is saying. He is good at speaking persuasively and convincingly, and knows how to smooth over any rough patches when he has to deal with people. However, when Stefan has to compete or deal with hostility, he may be a bit lost. He has a gift for oratory, which could be put to good use in a communications-related field or in the arts (such as stage acting or screenwriting). Dance and writing are also arts that are associated with movement and expression, so Stefan might excel in those too.

You have a deep, penetrating intelligence and a structured mind. However, your thought processes tend to be slow because of a failure or humiliation during your formative years. You are fairly inhibited and pessimistic, and you tend to doubt in yourself and your intellectual skills. Despite your undeniable gifts as a thinker, you should become aware that your thought patterns and habits are the sign that you are on the brink of a really big breakthrough. This breakthrough will give you an understanding of the complexity of things and phenomena. It will take time and effort, but you are suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. Your contribution to society will probably be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. Whatever career you choose, you should learn to work alone. You will also have to learn to conquer your impatience. Because you tend to waste time agonizing over deadlines and schedules, and because you have a lack of self-confidence, you could be fairly conventional and respectful of time-honored ways. Instead, you should find the courage to question your convictions.

Stefan Lessard has a great deal of intuition but sometimes has problems organizing his thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although his perceptions are lively and subtle, he may display a kind of absent-mindedness out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself. His imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.

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