What does Splurge’s psychology tell us about them?

Splurge searches for stability; she wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for her life. But her efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, she is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time she reaches what she believes to be a good balance, she realizes she wants something entirely different. She would do well to become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.

Splurge has great strength of character. Her courage and endurance enable her to accomplish even extremely arduous tasks. Although she sometimes behaves impulsively, she generally knows how to plan out an effective strategy, and, as a result, she reaches her goals without meeting any major obstacles. Her forcefulness gives her certain leadership skills, which she may implement to creative and constructive ends.

You are an ardent free thinker and individualist who is convinced that your most precious basic values are freedom and independence. You have thrown off what you perceive as the burden of the convention and customs of your social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions, bordering on proselytism, sometimes trouble your relationships, as you may be an uncompromising partner. You would do well to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people, or you are liable to find yourself continually embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your somewhat extreme behavior probably lie in your relationship with your father or your teachers in childhood and adolescence. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way as you now refuse to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important life decision you make as an adult, you are forced to rely on yourself to elaborate the appropriate behavior, and the limits you must impose on your desires in relation to reality and the law.

Splurge is extremely sociable and in tune with others. A need to be accepted and respected drives Splurge to be tactful and diplomatic; in fact, Splurge will sometimes swallow their personal pride in the interests of the smooth running of the group. Splurge is also fond of harmony and order in artistic terms; Splurge is sensitive and discerning, and will avoid anything crude and vulgar. As a result, Splurge is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. Relationships (the couple, or a partnership) take a central role in Splurge’s life.

Splurge is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find him generous almost to a fault! He gives of himself and his resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when he is self-focused. He reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and is prone to misjudge. As a result, his everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, he senses a conflict between his social life and his family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill himself in both spheres at the same time. His attitude toward his private life may inhibit his ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on his private life. He should be careful not to project his personal problems onto his partner. If, instead, he analyzes the problem together, he could find opportunities to resolve it together.

Splurge has a delicate and imaginative mind which can be a source of great inspiration, creativity, and spiritual growth, but also has difficulty distinguishing dreams from reality. When it comes to relationships, she is very romantic, seeing the person in front of her as a true love and not always seeing the faults that they may have. She enjoys the finer things in life and beauty is one of her favourite things.

Splurge feels the need to find a soulmate. The world of their emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule their sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.

Splurge’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

The subject of the text, Splurge, craves love and admiration. Paradoxically, although love, the need for a soulmate, and psychological considerations rule their life, they are quite self-focused. They are a consummate charmer and cannot bear not being loved. They crave admiration and adulation – unconsciously, they dream of becoming a star. If, however, they find fulfillment in love, all their worldly, psychological, and artistic qualities will thrive.

Splurge dreams of a handsome adventurer who will bring her a fantastic life, full of surprises and discoveries. Real life is sure to be more mundane, but this does not necessarily mean that it will be without joy and good humor. Despite a degree of instability, her home should be full of love and this will bring her security.

You have the emotional instability of someone who derives great pleasure from suffering. Your relationships are always in a state of flux because you are constantly looking for a way to get even more out of them. Your need to be the center of attention and your tendency to act impulsively often leads to arguments and misunderstandings. However, you could use your creativity to explore different avenues in your relationships.

You are an ardent and amorous person, and your relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you.

Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.

Splurge has a reasonably skeptical temperament which relies on remarkable analytic and critical faculties. She is sensitive and curious, a keen observer of facts who collects detailed information she will later pore over and analyze. This type of logical, rational mind is extremely efficient for elaborating methods or sorting and classifying information. However, she sometimes lacks flexibility or broad-mindedness.

Splurge tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. Her thoughts are usually structured, and her reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.

Many people struggle with opposition to authority in childhood or adolescence. This can lead to difficulties in integrating new ideas and concepts or in giving thought structure and coherence. As a result, you may have a distaste for study, which can be a difficult task. You may also harbor feelings of insecurity that can undermine your will. However, if you overcome these emotions, you have many marketable skills and many satisfactory solutions to your feelings of ineptitude and inadequacy are within your reach. Because this psychological complex may be related to childhood or adolescent opposition to parental or academic authority, you may not readily accept people who represent law enforcement agencies or power as adults. You may display hostility or vindictiveness toward them as a matter of principle. You should be careful about what you say.

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