If Sofie Dossi really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution:
– her continual need for security
– her tendency to escape into fantasy
– her hunger for approval
– her longing for the past
– her fear of the future
– her investment systems

Sofie Dossi may experience discord in relationships. Although Sofie Dossi is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, Sofie Dossi often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Sofie Dossi should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Sofie Dossi succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Sofie Dossi and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.