If Nicole Row really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution: – her continual need for security – her tendency to escape into fantasy – her hunger for approval – her longing for the past – her fear of the future – her investment systems
Nicole Row may experience discord in relationships. Although Nicole Row is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, Nicole Row often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.
To understand and overcome this problem, Nicole Row should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Nicole Row succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Nicole Row and Nicole Row’s partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
Nicole Row has fairly single-minded and obstinate desires. Nicole Row displays a remarkable persistence in the pursuit of Nicole Row’s commitments, despite any obstacles Nicole Row may encounter. Nicole Row is highly charged with sensuality and sexuality, and they have a great deal of influence on Nicole Row’s behavior. Nicole Row’s expression in this area is sometimes fraught with problems because Nicole Row has a tendency to try too hard to control Nicole Row’s lustful urges. However, an emotional crisis intervening at around age 40 may bring about a total redefinition of Nicole Row’s relationship to Nicole Row’s sexuality.