Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:
Because Neymar feels insecure, he is fairly individualistic. Although he sometimes mingles with groups for their competitive atmosphere, he will rarely join in them wholeheartedly, preferring to work on his own projects independently. A lack of confidence in himself may sometimes create challenges in relationships. His lack of self-esteem may also sometimes inhibit the full expression of his generosity and love.
You are sober and reserved and may even strike people as rigid and austere at times. Perhaps Neymar was raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety as a child, and, as a result, became an adult a little too fast. In any case, Neymar quickly acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency and a strong sense of personal dignity and worth. At work, Neymar is skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, but Neymar’s lack of self confidence and personal assurance hinder Neymar’s decision-making skills. Although Neymar would deserve a prominent executive position, Neymar might refuse any that are offered due to Neymar’s fear of being in the limelight. Neymar is aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who are patient, which, in Neymar’s case, is true. The psychological mechanisms described above are probably the result of a paternal complex. In childhood, Neymar’s identity may have been too strongly attached to that of Neymar’s father or a father figure, for one of the following reasons:
– the bond with Neymar’s father was too close,
– Neymar’s father was absent and/or idealized,
– Neymar’s father was too strict, etc.
In any case, this psychological particularity can act either as a handicap or as an opportunity for the individual to overcome yourself. It will result in two groups of opposite but complementary reactions which will rule Neymar’s behavior all Neymar’s life:
– hypersensitivity or insensitivity
– intense life wish or discomfort with life
– obsession or renunciation
– skepticism or fanaticism
– asceticism or lust
– jealousy or indifference
– effort or laziness
The so-called “Saturnian” phases (at age 7, 14, 21, 28 or 29, and 35 years) will be transitional periods that give Neymar an opportunity to resolve this complex in real life.
Neymar has an inalienable awareness of the void and the vanity of existence. Neymar is sometimes disoriented and deconstructed by an unknowable, unconscious force and tends to ignore or disparage the superficial pleasures and pains of daily life, preferring to dive into the depths of human experience as deeply as Neymar’s intellectual, emotional, and spiritual capacities permit. Grappling with Neymar’s “fundamental nature,” with the deepest and most primitive part of Neymar, Neymar is sometimes aghast at the discovery of the sheer power of the life instinct and feels an imperious need to cope with it.
This special consciousness Neymar has been endowed with is somewhat beyond the bounds of conventional schools of human understanding and thought and may be a source of identity problems for Neymar at the outset. It is not easy for Neymar to recognize Neymar in any social or narcissistic models or identify with any existing roles or attitudes, so Neymar sometimes finds Neymar forced to construct and assert Neymar’s own identity on a basis which may impress others with its intensity, if not its eccentricity. Adaptation and Sensitivity:
Hypersensitive, Neymar is extremely receptive to the mood in his surroundings. He is unconsciously able to perceive the parapsychic signals or aura people give off, in addition to their words. As a result, Neymar is extremely compassionate and ready to devote himself to their well-being. His imagination has formulated the dream of an ideal life, and he sometimes feels ill-equipped for the realities of this existence. Neymar tends to dodge difficult situations. With his partner, he seeks fusion.
Neymar is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find Neymar generous almost to a fault! Neymar gives of himself and his resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when Neymar is self-focused. Neymar reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and are prone to misjudge. As a result, Neymar’s everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, Neymar senses a conflict between Neymar’s social life and Neymar’s family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill Neymarself in both spheres at the same time. Neymar’s attitude toward Neymar’s private life may inhibit Neymar’s ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on Neymar’s private life. Neymar should be careful not to project Neymar’s personal problems onto Neymar’s partner. If, instead, the two of you analyzed the problem, you might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together. Love and Sensuality:
Neymar is sometimes afraid to love – the world of Neymar’s feelings is characterized by a certain chill and restraint. But Neymar is not unfeeling; on the contrary, Neymar’s sensitivity is so delicate that Neymar is careful to protect it. Neymar’s determination to maintain control of Neymar’s feelings and force Neymar’s emotions to obey the laws of reason may stand in the way of intimacy and joy.
Neymar’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. Neymar enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with Neymar’s gaze riveted on the future, Neymar is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Neymar is extremely sensitive. In a relationship, Neymar tends to idealize the other and go from one disenchantment to the next. Only a high-minded partner who really shares Neymar’s ideas and vision of life will be a good match for Neymar. It would also be advisable for this person to have their feet on the ground.
Neymar is realistic and demanding, and expects a great deal from their partner without giving much of themselves in exchange. They may tend to be frustrated to the point that they remain single or refuse any emotional expression for themselves, but derive a certain pleasure in their self-control and self-discipline. They may experience a great passion, but it may end sadly due to a trick of fate. A marriage of reason might be the best way for them to go.
Neymar has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of his main purposes in life. His personal charm and magnetism give him nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of his well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of his desires. Due to his impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, his approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.
Neymar may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive him to seek pleasure. His need for romantic fulfillment may compel him to marry, because he also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that he had indeed achieved success. However, privately, he might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.
Neymar has an ardent and amorous character, and his relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, Neymar is often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, his love life may be subject to some instability. Neymar is generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate him. His greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although Neymar merges his ego entirely into the couple, he is likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If his partner charms and captivates him long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with Neymar; otherwise, he is likely to yield to his need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for him. Midlife may be a turning point for Neymar from this point of view. His contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. His behavior enables him to remain aloof, to commit himself only halfway without consciously admitting it to himself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when he loses interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps Neymar from forming stable relationships.
Indeed, Neymar is tormented by the struggle between his undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, his romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by his conviction that his partner has become an obstacle to his individual progress. Because Neymar thinks of love as a restraint, he may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, Neymar will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, Neymar is also likely to meet “the one” who inspires him to initiate a change in his behavior.
Neymar has a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. Neymar is emotive and hypersensitive, making Neymar especially vulnerable emotionally, since Neymar is sometimes overwhelmed by Neymar’s feelings and affects. Although Neymar seeks an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom Neymar could maintain blissful, smooth relations, Neymar is sometimes met with disillusionment. Because Neymar’s rather excessive sensitivity and Neymar’s need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge Neymar’s judgment and discernment, so Neymar sometimes forms extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When Neymar meets someone, Neymar falls under the enchantment of Neymar’s dream of ideal love and cannot keep Neymar from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, Neymar yields to another of Neymar’s characteristic urges and loses Neymar in the individual who is so dear to Neymar, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find Neymar as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, Neymar’s psyche is constructed in such a way as to make Neymar’s sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before Neymar take on any major commitments, Neymar should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates Neymar’s intense love, for Neymar may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Neymar’s tendency to believe in Neymar’s illusions may mark Neymar as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for Neymar to find a different object for Neymar’s affections, or a form of sublimation, because Neymar tends to be so disappointed by Neymar’s great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of Neymar’s imagination procure artistic refinement for Neymar, and Neymar loves the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because Neymar’s sensitivity also makes it easy for Neymar to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties Neymar’s peers are struggling with, Neymar might also find it rewarding to commit Neymar to social work. Mental and Intellect:
Neymar is a flexible individual, and his intellectual faculties draw on sudden flashes of pure intuition as well as logical, rational thought. He has progressive, inventive, and sometimes utopian ideas; they usually relate to human or social problems. He always strives to be in the vanguard, creating a better world for the future.
Neymar expresses his thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. He is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, he looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.
You sometimes make mistakes in judgment, and your understanding of things is not always in tune with social realities or prevailing opinion. Your judgments tend to be hasty; your decisions are reckless. Moreover, you tend to overestimate your abilities and usually aim higher than might be realistic. Once an enterprise or project is underway, you may try to avoid obstacles by dodging certain duties.
Because your vision of the world differs somewhat from social realities, you should be extremely careful and scrupulous in regard to legal matters, in order to avoid any complications of that type. You are sometimes slightly dishonest in your relations; you may break promises or attempt to duck responsibility.
However, you should realize that such conduct toward other people is also a form of unconscious self-loathing. If you continue to behave in such a way, you are exposing yourself to the same lack of sincerity from your partners.