If Jaden Newman really wants to improve and transform themselves, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding them back and preventing their evolution:
– their shallowness
– their lack of sincerity
– their indifference
– their frivolity
– their fear of commitment

Jaden Newman may experience discord in relationships. Although Jaden Newman is friendly and outgoing and commits him/herself to friendships and partnerships, Jaden Newman often finds it difficult to balance his/her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Jaden Newman should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Jaden Newman succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship he/she and his/her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first thing Jaden Newman must do is learn to say no. Once Jaden is capable of saying no to others, Jaden can say yes to life. Jaden must develop Jaden’s awareness of all the things Jaden loves and feel positive about, as well as all the changes Jaden hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support Jaden, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of Jaden’s personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when Jaden was helpless may be obstacles to Jaden’s evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent Jaden from daring to confront challenges Jaden would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons Jaden yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to Jaden that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of Jaden’s identity. However, the more often Jaden reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware Jaden become of Jaden’s true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced Jaden’s pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for Jaden to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside Jaden that claims Jaden doesn’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of Jaden could undermine Jaden’s vitality and force Jaden to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, Jaden limit Jaden’s power to bring about a positive change in Jaden or Jaden’s life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free Jaden, the first step is to free Jaden from the fears which prevent Jaden from taking full advantage of life. Jaden can succeed if Jaden arranges a relaxed, positive environment for Jaden, establishes sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which Jaden can practice relaxation exercises.